A perfect date to me..especially first dates that can have those uncomfortable silent moments is one that is in easy surroundings, not too noisy so you can actually hear each other, and two people that can talk about everything for hours from growing up to likes and dislikes....To me it's more about the company and if you like someone you can be anywhere, as simple as sharing an icecream and enjoying the time without having to have props...
First dates can be horrendous... It's always better to get to know someone rather than throw yourself to the wolves and find out within five minutes you are definitely not going to get along so best to seek a comfortable place rather than have to bribe a girlfriend to ring ten minutes into the date and make excuses to escape or find the bathroom window and run into the night.
Speaking from my personal experience, I was in the same boat and my guy and I dated a year but in the end he was still obviously getting through emotionally so we broke up which was hard. There has to be that healing time, that pause where someone has time with themselves to reflect otherwise down the track it can mean more problems brought over from the last relationship...Not meaning it will happen of course, some people can bounce straight into another relationship.... I would not throw this opportunity away, but take it nice and slow and build a friendship before anything solid
A few years ago Australia had a contraversial moment when kangaroo meat was discovered in our infamous meat pies... Who put the roo in the stew???
Perhaps instead of Shergar being gunned down by IRA he was carted to the local butcher shop and made into sausages??
I remember the first time in Milan I could not speak Italian and dined in a restaurant...I heartedly enjoyed tucking into a huge plate of one long sausage and I was trying to understand the meat type.... I started to converse with the chef making first cow noises, then pig...and still no luck so tried baaing like a sheep...He laughed so loud then stood snorted, clubbed his foot on the ground and made the loudest whinny I have ever heard....yes seems they like horse sausages...hope it was from his flank???
I disagree....I am single and enjoy my life totally, Yes I would share it in an instant if someone I truly wanted to be with come along but I am not really out there searching... I have travelled extensively for 25 years and seen so many different things that have shaped me for who I am today..I would like to bring to a relationship rather than be in a position to take and I think after all this time I am ready...I am sure he will come along when the time is right...as for in the meantime, I value my friends wholeheartedly..and above all my own sacred time with me
I met my twin soul when I was barely 19...and being my first love was the most incredible sweet poison and at times the most painful time in my life. Well unfortunately he committed suicide and since that time in all the years, I have loved and liked alot in many ways....but never from that deeper level of my heart...
ummm. yeah most men are jealous because they come in REAL sizes...we all know how a guy says 12 inches and its only 4... guys have a problem with measurements...don't know how carpenters cope?
Well BOB is my bestest friend...just love the way he purrrs all night, doesn't need to have a break, doesn't expect me to sleep in the wet spot, Doesn't ask for me to pass the cigarettes Doesn't expect breakfast in bed Never burbs, passes wind or drools in front of mom,
Many things are important to me but the most is remembering that they are and just being true to myself...trying to achieve balance and not sweat the small stuff
One of my first jobs after studying was four years with the army...I worked in communications deciphering morse codes and encripted codes....Why not, could shoot an automatic, throw a grenade and completed the extreme physical training with the rest of the 'guys.' I never considered myself a woman', just another soldier like the other women and men in the forces...yes it was tough but with it came a lot of self growth... (green is not my colour though)
Zarah Forum Posts (1,388)
RE: Whats your idea of the perfect date?
Sounds lovely but I am more prone to chat and I would probably be frowned at by every person there and told to be silent..As long as he did not suffer tourettes syndrome....could you imagine half way through madame butterfly and the curses broke out??