jbibiza Forum Posts (4,914)

RE: WHICH PLACE YOU PREFER TO GO ON YOUR FIRST DATE

Well it's either a very busy day on CS...or people didn't get that I was JOKING!!!

I've had 8 flowers and 17 profile views since posting this...

RE: WHICH PLACE YOU PREFER TO GO ON YOUR FIRST DATE

No worries...happy to help!

RE: WHICH PLACE YOU PREFER TO GO ON YOUR FIRST DATE

In Holland it would be where you go to buy marijuana, hashcakes, etc.

RE: what are you doing now

Getting ready to go to the hospital...my best friend is having twins but they decided they want to come into the world a little too soon, so she's in the hospital, total bedrest as they try to keep the babies inside for another 10 days... Then over to her house to do some cleaning and finish setting up the babies room!

RE: what are you doing now

Getting ready to go to the hospital...my best friend is having twins but they decided they want to come into the world a little too soon, so she's in the hospital, total bedrest as they try to keep the babies inside for another 10 days... Then over to her house to do some cleaning and finish setting up the babies room!

RE: Would you leave your disfigured husband/wife?

I understand what you're saying but it is a completly different situation that doesn't involve the other considerations we've talked about... You are who you are...burns scars and all...so you're not going to change.

I dated a man who had burn scars and skingrafts over 80% of his body and had no problem with it but he also told me what he had gone through with years of surgery and pain...and anger lots and lots of anger. So while I could be with him after the fact, I don't know that I could have stayed with him during everything he went through.

RE: WHICH PLACE YOU PREFER TO GO ON YOUR FIRST DATE

His place...that way I can do some cleaning, throw on a load of wash and iron his shirts before making him dinner.

RE: Would you leave your disfigured husband/wife?

Of course I want to say no...but there are so many contributing factors other then the disfigurment...as one poster stated the changes in your partner could well be more then physical...and there could be changes in how you feel towards your partner...has your love turned to pity...I would hate if someone stayed with me out of duty rather than out of desire...

I used to work with kids that were both deaf and blind...in the end I had to quit because I just couldn't deal with it...

So for me it's not a simple unqualified no.

RE: what are you doing now

Well I thought I was making a valid point... I give up.

RE: what are you doing now

Mmmm Baileys... Good idea!

RE: What are you doing right now?

You have to admit...it did sound a bit strange if you don't know what Tom Thumb drops are...

RE: What are you doing right now?

I imagine you get used to it... Staying in won...out for a drink with friends tomorrow...yes, even if it's raining!

So now I'm reorganizing my friends bday party...we were going to do a big paella on the beach sunday...like thats gonna happen... so will have to come up with another plan!

RE: What are you doing right now?

Trying to decide whether or not to go out tonight... It's friday night so I should go out...but it's cold and rainy out there and nice and cozy here...

RE: WHICH PLACE YOU PREFER TO GO ON YOUR FIRST DATE

Doesn't anyone go to a bar or pub any more???

I enjoy meeting in a good local pub, especially one with a juke box...check out his taste in music and if they have a pool table even better, it's great to see how he reacts to getting beat by a girl... good way to see how he is in a social situation and what kind of drinker he is...couple of beers or hard core.

Great early warning if a guy gets drunk on a first date...

RE: YESSSS, at last, I have a hottie interested in me!!

I guess the men aren't as subtle...I label scammers by their overwhelming emotion at reading my profile and words like marriage, spiritual connection... Blah, blah, blah ...

RE: YESSSS, at last, I have a hottie interested in me!!

Other than including an email address...her message was very similar to one I sent out when I first started here and was actively looking...I also sent it to several men that peaked my interest..

I would hate to think anyone thought I was a scammer.

What is the "give away" in her message?

RE: YESSSS, at last, I have a hottie interested in me!!

Why???

RE: what is your short term and long term goals in life??

No goals... Just taking each day as it comes, taking advantage of the opportunities that present themselves...over coming the obstacles and enjoying life as much as possible.

RE: take your time!!!!

You're lucky...that's just 2 hours each to meet in the middle...whats a couple of hours in the pursuit of love...

If I want to go more than 20 miles I have to get ln a plane or a boat!

RE: "I love you But I am not inlove with you"

No...not such an extreme, we all have friends,both male & female that we love, but not in "that way".


In a relationship I think it depends on how important passion is over love and companionship and if both parties are happy in a loving relationship over a passionate one then why wouldn't it be fair to stay together?

RE: Do you believe in love at first sight?

I believe in lust at first sight and sometimes it can turn into love...

RE: take your time!!!!

Thanks R...all down to experience and I'm a fast learner....

RE: take your time!!!!

I'm one who wants to meet ASAP...and meet as friends with no expectations and see what happens.

Lets face it...you could spend months talking to each other and seem to be the perfect match only to find out when you do finally meet...there's no chemistry.

Then you have the disappointment as well as several wasted months. I do not fall in love with words on a screen or a voice on the phone...

RE: I need help in the pro`s and con`s of state to state dating

No chemistry

Hi Gra!

RE: I need help in the pro`s and con`s of state to state dating

It worked out fine, he was a lovely guy and an amazing chef...but no chemistry...he is still in touch via email. ...but damn I wish I could have felt more...I could have spent the rest of my life sailing around the world with him...

RE: I need help in the pro`s and con`s of state to state dating

I did an "island to island" date... I paid for my ticket but he paid for everything else and provided a very nice stateroom on his boat.... my friends had all of his details and I called and verified the info when I arrived.

RE: Menage a trois

Nor will I be used for a cheap thrill... But if you'd like to supply your credit card details...

RE: Menage a trois

I think that's a line we all draw for ourselves... I'm an open person and am not ashamed or embarrassed of the experiences I've had in my life.

RE: Menage a trois

That's how it was the second time I tried it...but the first was amazing

RE: Menage a trois

...and after the responses you have had, you probably won't...

I did when I was about 20 but both guys were straight so there wasnlt any guy on guy action... it was all about me...