RE: Burqanisation

The burqua..an article of clothing...some women claim they prefer wearing it. As i said before it's not the burqua that's the problem, it's the reason for it that is the problem...either it's ownership, the woman beneath belongs to me and no other eyes have the right to look,

...or it's the site of a womans body so inflames us we can't be held responsible for our actions.

In the case of women who choose to wear a burqua... Just pass by a construction site sometime and it's understandable that a woman not raised in a western culture would feel intimidated.

Personally I hate seeing the loss of items from peoples culture on the grounds that others don't like or undersrand it.

What happens to the women in areas where the burqua is outlawed...but they feel strongly about not being exposed in public? Are they trapped in their homes for the rest of their life?

RE: your opinion please

Even before the money thing... The accent wasn't a hint... It was a slap! I was born in Scotland but moved to the states when i was 5. My parents still have a strong accent but I sound completly American having spent 35 years there...I've now been in Spain for 7 years and still sound American. I'm sorry but there is no way someone is going to pick up a strong accent in a year.

RE: So you think you are all that! A challenge to the hotties

I've always believed that "if they see you at yout worst, they'll appreciate you at your best.... Got no problem running my errands "au natural' laugh

RE: What do people "REALLY" want??

That's why the idea of me meeting someone online is almost laughable... For me to go 20 miles requires getting on a plane or a boat!
Anyone who wanted to come and meet me would have to realize that there are no guarentees...so my attitude is if you're coming over for a holiday I'd love to meet you but i would feel guilty if they were spending the money specificly to meet me.

RE: What do people "REALLY" want??

Of course you need to meet face to face...unless all you want is a virtual relationship... For me the online thing is just another way to meet people...not a means to develope a relationship...that happens up close and personal!

RE: What do people "REALLY" want??

Ready, willing and able grin

RE: Burqanisation

Hi Trish, love your new picture...I can't believe how much you look like my cousin!

RE: Why is it hard for black guys to find their ideal women online?

I think living in Ibiza is adventure enough...laugh

RE: Why is it hard for black guys to find their ideal women online?

No...I think it's a matter of opening yourself up to the possibilities...

I know that I've somewhat limited my possibilities by choosing to live on a very small island...that and the fact that i don't do the whole falling in love on line thing...laugh

RE: Why is it hard for black guys to find their ideal women online?

Maybe it's time for a holiday...Guatamano bay perhaps???laugh

RE: Why is it hard for black guys to find their ideal women online?

Why is it so hard for a middle aged white woman to find any mate...never mind her ideal mate, anywhere? I read somewhere that I have a better chance of being shot by a terrorist than I do of finding a mate,,,laugh

RE: What kind of wife you prefer to have :

I just saw the results of the poll and it's equal between stay at home and working...in reality that seems to be the way it is in many cases... The woman works outside the home and is still ecpected to do all the tasks a stay at home wife does.

I noticed that one man even ssid that with no kids he would like his wife to work but when kids come along he wants her to stay home.

So she's supposed to walk away from a career she may have invested a lot of time and education creating and by the time the kids are old enough for her ro go back to work her skills are obsolete and akk she can get is some mundane job...is this fair? What if her career paid more and offered better benefits than her husbands?

It's s different world than the one our parents grew up in... There doesn't seem to be any easy answers!

RE: What kind of wife you prefer to have :

I just saw the results of the poll and it's equal between stay at home and working...in reality that seems to be the way it is in many cases... The woman works outside the home and is still ecpected to do all the tasks a stay at home wife does.

I noticed that one man even ssid that with no kids he would like his wife to work but when kids come along he wants her to stay home.

So she's supposed to walk away from a career she may have invested a lot of time and education creating and by the time the kids are old enough for her ro go back to work her skills are obsolete and akk she can get is some mundane job...is this fair? What if her career paid more and offered better benefits than her husbands?

It's s different world than the one our parents grew up in... There doesn't seem to be any easy answers!

RE: CS Community

I think you went over the 3 emotion limit...professor

RE: 7 Mistakes Single Women Make

I'm surprised to see such a stereotype coming from you!

RE: 7 Mistakes Single Women Make

I don't feel "entitled" but I'm also not about to make accomodations just to have someone in my life! i realise that i may be on my own for the rest of my life but that would be better than having someone just for the sake of having them!

When I look back at the men who have been in my life the things they have in common are...
Intelligence
Kindness
Strength
A sense of mischief
A good work ethic
But mostly we shared a connection, impossible to put into words

Those are the same things I'm looking for now and I'd rather be on my own than compromise

RE: Is rejection a reflection of our affection....

If you'r talking about sending a flower or message to someone on cs or a similar service then it would depenf on the amount of contact you have shared...

If you spent a lot of time on the forums interacting and got no response then yes, I imagine you would feel some rejection.

If you contacted someone after just viewing their profile and they didn't respond it's no big deal...bit like saying hi to someone on the street and getting no response...no big deal!

RE: Why do people create insecurity or self-pity threads?

Oh my...are we feeling a bit intolerant of others faults and weakness the past couple of days?laugh

RE: valentines breakup

I would love a nice six pack on a guy for a gift!laugh

RE: valentines breakup

laugh thumbs up

RE: valentines breakup

I cut a piece of toast into the shape of a love heart once.....

I thought that was far more meaningful and romantic than flowers, chocolates and an expensive meal. I still have the burn mark and small marmalade stain on my forehead to prove that I was wrong.....[/quote

Now rhats something i would love... You did give it to her in bed??? If not maybe thats where it went wrong...laugh

RE: valentines breakup

No...but if my man said he was going to whip off his shirt and be my gardener for a day... Now that's a good gift!

RE: valentines breakup

If people break up because of a crappy gift, well..

say a bit about what the relationship meant to them...[/quote


Sometimes a crappy gift is a good indicator the relationship may not be all you think it is...I'm not talking about the money spent but the thought behind it. If I said i hate gardening and you get me gardening gloves for valentines day... We may have a problem!

RE: first thought

ahhhhh the sun is shining...maybe my laundry will dry today!

RE: My turn "and he was bad" ????

Bold? If you consider my honesty bold then yes. As to why we havn't met before I've not been around much this past year but people who know me from when i was a more active member know that I'm always honest with my posts and expect the same in return... I've never been one to ask for opinions and then been upset if people didn't respond in a sympathetic manner, if I'm screwing up i hope my friends will be honest enough to point it out.

RE: My turn "and he was bad" ????

No... I don't know you and can only respond ro what you have posted... You asked for opinions and i have given you mine based on what you have posted. If you were looking for comfort it may have been better to post a thread that said "after 8 months it's over, i need a hug." As to being sad over my replys... Why should you be? It's just the thoughts of someone who doesn't know you and isn't important in your life.

RE: My turn "and he was bad" ????

I'm not being mean...a little sarcastic maybe... I don't know the whole picture but from what you have said here it sounds as though you've thrown away 8 months because of jelousy and possesivness...2 of the most destructive emotions in a relationship

RE: My turn "and he was bad" ????

it sounds to me that you wou.d be better off getting a dog...people have lives and they revolve around mlre than one person.

RE: Red wine.....

Ok, call me a wine snob...but if you'r onjy drinking wine to "get the job done" maye it's time to switch to teqjila! Give me a cork in a good bottle of italian brunello or austrlian shiraz/merlot blend and i'm a happy girl... There'a a lot to be said for a good spanish rioja as well!

RE: My turn "and he was bad" ????

Hi morganwave good to see you!

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