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RE: A small advice for women :) To help you NOT TO COMPLICATE

RE: A small advice for women :) To help you NOT TO COMPLICATE

I was being facetious... I understand myself just fine, I just find it really amusing when a man who claims not to understand women claims that he can help a woman understand herself...

RE: A small advice for women :) To help you NOT TO COMPLICATE

Hi Dawn I don´t know the poster well enough to know... but they do say that a persons humour reflects a lot about who they are....

RE: A small advice for women :) To help you NOT TO COMPLICATE

Sweetie... I never claim to be anything other than what others have confirmed about me... my point wasn´t that I am sooooo great but that your list of expectations women have seems very moderate to me... yet seems like a lot to you... a girl would have to have very low expectations to settle for that...

RE: A small advice for women :) To help you NOT TO COMPLICATE

oooops... forgot to quote...

When something is worth paying attention to... I´m all ears...

RE: A small advice for women :) To help you NOT TO COMPLICATE

When something is worth paying attention to... I´m all ears...

RE: A small advice for women :) To help you NOT TO COMPLICATE

Are you for real?????? When I need guidance from a man I´ll ask my father or my partner and since you all claim not to understand women how do you expect to help us understand ourselves????

RE: A small advice for women :) To help you NOT TO COMPLICATE

You think that´s asking for a lot????????? I´m all of those things and more as most of the women here are... why should we expect anything less in a potential mate?

RE: how many times have u moved in ur life?

3 times in Scotland by the time I was 5, than to the USA... as a child 8 times within California than another 4 times as an "adult" in CA then to Maine and back to CA another 6 moves in CA then 3 years of backpacking moving every week to month... and then back to Scotland 3 moves in 5 months and then to Ibiza... 10 moves in 6 years... I think I´ll settle for a while in the studio I moved into last May... set right on the sea with beautiful view and I get to go to sleep to the soft sounds of the sea on my doorstep...

RE: A small advice for women :) To help you NOT TO COMPLICATE

You have a strange way of interpreting things... I do accept a man as he is and don´t believe in trying to change a person. If the guy in my life doesn´t "get me"... than it´s the wrong guy, I don´t try to change him... I just "exchange" him for one that does.

RE: A small advice for women :) To help you NOT TO COMPLICATE

Men go on and on about women accepting them as they are... well guess what that idea goes both ways

If you have a woman who over analysis... deal with it, accept it.

If she makes a mountain out of a molehill... that´s who she is, deal with it.

Why, in your little world, is it so much more important for women to accept men as they are... than for a man to accept a woman for who she is?

RE: MY EURO-TRIP

I don´t do tours! I like the freedom of going where I want when I want. I spent a year traveling around Europe, hopping on trains or buses when I wanted to move on. I don´t see the point in doing things on someone else´s itinerary.

You might want to think about just getting a flight over to London and sorting things out for yourself and going the places that interest you. That way you can stay as long as you like if you find somewhere or someone you like... or move on quickly if you don´t like the place.

RE: Freedoms

The Patriot Act shows this at it´s worst... even the naming of it, as if by opposing it you are "unpatriotic".... Good to see you!

RE: Freedoms

A wee bit cheeky, brief and to the point... I do enjoy your posts...

RE: Freedoms

As I said... I lived in America for 40 years, most of my life, so I have walked in those shoes.

RE: Freedoms

While there may be places... it´s not a way of life. The bar I work in is known as a dog friendly bar... the owner has the freedom to choose whether or not to allow dogs on his property as customers have the freedom to choose whether or not to frequent an establishment that has dogs on the premises this simple freedom is against the law in the states as is having a cigarette in a bar. There may be places where you can get away with it but you are a criminal in the eyes of the law for doing so as is the owner who allows it... I left the States because I was tired of having every action monitored by laws.

RE: Freedoms

Personally I think the "Freedom" people talk about in America is a fallacy. I lived in the States from the time I was 5 until I was 40.

On the right you have big business controlling the government to their own ends and on the left you have "do gooders" who think they know how everyone else should live their lives... creating laws to control the behaviour of people "for their own good".

Then you have a government and legal system that basically removes all personal responsibility for peoples actions. The burglar who cuts himself on the window while illegally entering a property can sue the homeowner... the suit against McDonalds for a woman spilling hot coffee in her lap... and so on and on and on.

This has created a culture of warning labels on even the most obvious hazards and a society that blames everything on someone else and tries to profit from their own stupid actions. With every lawsuit won more laws go into effect curtailing personal freedoms more and more each day.

I live on a little island off the coast of Spain... I´m sitting at an internet cafe having a glass of wine and a cigarette with my friends dog laying at my feet... when was the last time you could experience such a simple pleasure in the States? I´ll take that over owning a gun any day!

RE: SENDING MONEY FOR AIR TICKET???

Don´t ever send someone money!!!!! Offer to reimburse her or buy her ticket and have it sent to her... but don´t send money!!!!!!!!!!

RE: Amazes Me

I have an amazing group of friends that I wouldn´t give up for anything! I would hope that if I developed a love interest that they would become a part of my group of friends in their own right.

RE: we are not a monogamous species...

Don´t start putting words in my mouth... I never said that Asian women were uneducated... just the ones that you are attracted to.

I think the passage I highlighted says it all... why would you want to see any human suffer and experience humility??? Like I said... you want a woman who has had it so bad in her life that you actually look good to her. I can truly say that I would feel sorry for any woman in that position.

RE: Bad Habbits................

I appreciate beauty in all of it´s forms... that includes the human species! I never did understand people feeling threatened by their partner looking and appreciating beauty... of course their is a difference between looking and ogling!

RE: Bad Habbits................

Ok... I agree winking isn´t appropriate if she´s with you... but there was never any harm in looking... I even point out beautiful women to the man I´m with...

RE: What's fair?

Not being faint hearted has nothing to do with physical violence!!! I hate a "faint hearted" man... but I also don´t like a violent man. A man who is violent is the true coward in this day and age... when he has to resort to brawn over brain...

RE: Do men like clever women?

On the whole... no. Every once in a while, when I go out, I´ll pull the dumb blond act... amazing how many more guys show an interest....

I don´t mean to sound full of myself but I do consider myself to be intelligent and independent and wish I could find a man who was comfortable with that rather than intimidated by it, and by comfortable I don´t mean someone who wants me to take charge... cause I don´t do that.... I like an equal partner.

Do I expect too much?

RE: we are not a monogamous species...

You couldn´t have posted anything better to prove my point... you consider people who lack confidence to be "weaker brained" and what makes your "truth" the universal truth? Your arrogance is astonishing...

That old saying "give a man enough rope and he will hang himself" is sooooo apt right now...

RE: we are not a monogamous species...

I am... all of the examples are based on posts you have made.

RE: we are not a monogamous species...

I am happy to allow people to fit within that belief when they allow others to do the same. What I have seen in your posts is your belief that you know better... you are judgmental and pushy with your beliefs and try to put it out that you have some knowledge that eludes everyone else.

I find people like you dangerous to those who don´t have confidence and are easily swayed and take it as a responsible act to point out to people that you don´t know anything more than they do and your opinions shouldn´t be given any more credit then their own.

Oh and it´s 95% not 98% and a large amount of that difference takes place in the reasoning part of the brain... in your case maybe that 3% makes all the difference...

RE: we are not a monogamous species...

no... it ain´t....

RE: we are not a monogamous species...

If we were to return to living by our instincts we may as well go back to the cave. There is reason and then there is greed motivated reason... do not confuse the two. There are enlightened people all around who strive for a better world that balances rather than destroys.

Some people prefer not to look at all of reality and instead base their opinions on their own limited reality. Because they have read a few books or gotten in touch with their "mystical" side feel they can solve the problems of the world and tell everyone how they should live their lives.

Their is no absolute truth to living life, we are individuals and find happiness and fulfillment in different ways.

RE: we are not a monogamous species...

It´s all well and good to blame "biology" or "genes" for our actions but I think that you are missing the bigger picture here. We are not animals but have been given the gift of reason and thought rather than blindly following instincts. We are supposed to be able to evolve and better ourselves as a species...

This attempt to blame our faults on our "biology" is nothing more that a cop out.