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RE: Official Women Appreciation Thread

SF doesn´t need to work his way into anyone's good graces... he knows he is adored my many here... I´m sure it´s not keeping him awake wondering if you like him or not.... and he will probably answer you much more graciously then I just did.

RE: Official Women Appreciation Thread

No Christmas shopping for me this year... I´ll be in the states for my daughter´s wedding in Feb and will give all my family their pressies then, so I´ll wait and shop during the sales after Christmas... all my male friends here are getting homemade soup, chilie, spagehetti sauce and brownies for their freezers...my place is known as the "soup kitchen" during the winter... and all my girlfriends want stuff from the States, so they get their presents when I get back.

I am looking forward to the "street celebrations" I live in a small town on a small Island and everybody comes out for 4 or 5 festivals over the next few weeks... I love walking around with friends with a hot chocolate and rum, listening to Spanish Christmas carols, kids running around, the giant tree in the town square... Christmas in a small community is magic!!!

RE: Official Women Appreciation Thread

I gave you a little bump on page 10 of !!!!????!!?Guys, BEWARE WHO you TALK TO!!!???????HAVE YOU BEEN SUCKED IN BY someone on this site??? thread.... and you just confirmed exactly what I said!

RE: Seducing your lover

Oh by the way.... I lurve your snake!

RE: Court sets atheist holiday

That was brilliant Trish!!!

RE: Hello. New here!

Hi Tammy and welcome to CS... Thanks for posting today, I´ve had so much fun reading the lads reactions...

RE: WHAT IS MORE IMPORTANT FOR U?

... and I was thinking about going in for a lift.... her´s aren´t any "perkier" then mine... thanks Lago, you just saved me a lot of pain and money!

RE: Commentment Problems? Do you have them?

yep, I have huge commitment problems... always have had. I was the one who walked away from the 3 loves in my life... not because I stopped loving them, not because something better came along... at the time I thought I had good reasons to walk away, even though I still loved them. Now I know I left from fear.... it´s funny how you can make even the most foolish decisions seem justifiable.

RE: Happy Birthday......~sweetowen~ !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

you guys are only 2 months to late... read the date of the thread post....

RE: No good single women anymore looking for a decent guy ?

Have you learned nothing today?

Direct from my profile... what I look for in a relationship...

A relationship without drama, based on trust, respect and love. A relationship where your partner is your best friend, your lover.

A relationship where you work together supporting each other´s strengths and weakness´s in order to create a life together, to help each other achieve their goals.

A relationship that jealousy, ego and mistrust aren´t a part of.

A relationship in which you celebrate each other´s achievements and accomplishments without being threatened.

A relationship which is truly balanced with each person equally committed to making their partner happy.


Do you see anything about playing games, money etc...?

RE: Poster of the Forums

RE: Poster of the Forums

I think I´m pretty naked... at least to anyone who reads the forums... I think people here have seen all of my moods, insecurity, anger, laughter and even "hopefully smitten" if they were around last year.

My pictures are all candid, what my profile says is who I am and what I want out of life... I don´t see the point of hiding who I am, or of playing games... the only people I want to have attracted to me is someone who sees me for who I am and is happy that I am that way.

RE: No good single women anymore looking for a decent guy ?

Sorry if you got the flack... but this is about the 5th or 6th thread that men have posted today that sounded like they were whining about women not appreciating them, or not wanting nice guys, or only wanting their money.... blah blah blah... and you got the tail end, nothing personal but you catch more women with laughter then whining...

RE: ok ok.ok....let's do this again..i love this thread....R U TAKEN OR ARE YOU NOT????

It´s been so long since I´ve been properly "taken"... I´m beginning to forget what it´s like...

RE: ok ok.ok....let's do this again..i love this thread....R U TAKEN OR ARE YOU NOT????

It´s been so long since I´ve been properly "taken"... I´m beginning to forget what it´s like...

RE: No good single women anymore looking for a decent guy ?

Wow... now there´s an offer sure to sweep any gal off her feet!

RE: Hoop jumping

The more like you and jampet... the better!!!

RE: For Emily....

Hi Dana, I posted the first one to the CS video for anyone who has dial up or a hard time going to links...

Beautiful Song...

RE: Hoop jumping

... and if you hate it change it! Life is to short to spend half of our non working time doing something we hate. I left the states, my own business and a 6 figure income to backpack and live in hostels and camp for 3 years. I now work 6 months a year in the bar and restaurant industry because it´s what I love doing and I live, very happily, on less then a tenth of what I used to make

When I say I have a fantastic lifestyle I mean just that... It doesn´t mean that I live in a fancy house, or drive a sports car or have a lot of money. It means my life is fun, I have friends I love, do things that interest me. If I were sitting around waiting for a SO to "complete me" or create a life for me... it would be a bloody miserable existence.

Example: Saturday night a DJ friend was hosting a dressup party at a club... I went with a few friends danced, laughed, talked, danced some more until they closed the place at 6am, one friend said I´m having to much fun to end it now... come back to my place, so 6 or 7 of us did... he´s a music producer and has lots of fun recording equipment... so we all recorded songs... very, very bad songs... and laughed ourselves silly at the complete and utter lack of talent we possess.

A short while after that we received a call from another group of friends who invited us for brunch... and away we went. Had a great meal... I got into an amazing conversation with a guy I´ve known for about a year but only on a social level... he told me some mind blowing things about his upbringing and we bonded as friends in a way we hadn´t before.

After a 4 hour Sunday brunch we were invited to a friends villa to try out some new wines he had purchased, had a lovely couple of hours there before heading out to a friends gig, fantastic guitarist and singer and got home about midnight on Sunday. So from Saturday night straight through to sunday night I spent about 30€ had an amazing time filled with laughter and music and great conversation... was absolutely exhausted and went to bed with a smile on my face.

Could I have had a better time? With the right guy to cuddle up with, to share secret smiles across the room, to pull me close for a dance... yes, that would have made it better... but I´m not going to put my life on hold waiting for that to happen.

RE: anyone else having problems viewing the forums?

yes.... I thought it was because we´re having a huge storm here... obviously not!

RE: Hoop jumping

... and because of your preconceived notion of what women want, you have interpreted my post completely wrong. Where did I state what kind of job or how much money a man needs to earn? I stated that I earn a good living, I don´t need a man to provide it. I do expect a good work ethic in a man... I hate laziness and I expect that what ever he does, he does with passion and to the best of his ability.

What I said I expect from a man is that he enhance my life, that each day I wake up to him makes that day better then it would have been without him, that he doesn´t detract from my life by being a lazy, unintersting lump on the couch that expects 3 squares and clean laundry.

RE: Should I be leary?

If there is a crush involved expect repercussions!!! It´s different when it´s purely a friendship... I have a couple of male friends that I can always call on to help me out with heavy stuff and they know they have a homemade meal coming for their efforts, we take care of each other... but when the giving is one sided and a crush in involved I thing you´re heading for trouble!

RE: Why do men over 50 chase woman half their age?

That´s what I love about you...

RE: Why do men over 50 chase woman half their age?

...and I do....

RE: TWENTY NINE LINES TO MAKE YOU SMILE

I loved those... I kept trying to pick favorites, but I couldn´t... they were all so apt!

RE: Adam

Dana, I´m so sorry... words just seem so useless right now. I wish I could be there just to give you and Emma a hug.

RE: Help, I need some good jokes

What do you get when you drop a grand piano down a mineshaft?


















A flat minor

RE: One More Reminder for Adam

I hope everything goes well with the surgery today, my love and thoughts are with you all.

RE: Since when did dating here and IRL become....

Hi Sommer... welcome back! Told you they´d let up!

RE: U.S. Amalgamation: What It Truly MEANS To Be A MELTING POT

Hi Trish... no I never really did run with the pack....