sirenna Forum Posts (28)

RE: Is the person above attractive to you

yes

RE: Is the person above attractive to you

yes, and has a lovely smile

RE: Glasgow meet - up

So when the men get there, you make them strip half naked and dance in cages eh?

RE: good versuses bad!!

Hello and welcome

I am not very good at recognising a 'bad guy' - I am not even sure there are such things ... everyone is good AND bad ... I recognise my own faults - but what may be termed as a 'fault' in some people is what others may find appealing.

My sister has a partner who is generous, loving and very attentive; they have been together for 30 yrs. But I would find his attentions stifling - he is a lovely man, but he rings her so many times when they are apart, and to me, seems terribly insecure; my sister seems to be always reassurring him, always changing her plans to suit him ... she seems never to have a spare moment to herself.

She sometimes gets frustrated with how demanding he is of her attention ... he gets upset when she wants to go somewhere without him, and looks positively on the verge of tears if she says a harsh word to him.

He is a 'good' man ...... but how very draining it must be to be in a relationship with a man like that.

'Bad' men do not appear to be 'bad' when you first meet them (or not usually) but a psychologist friend of mine says that we all reveal ourselves very early on in a relationship, and if we are careful, we should be able to identify the type of person we meet for who they really are underneath the 'front' they put on in the beginning of a relationship.
I think this is quite true. How often have we met someone who appeals to us but we have a niggling little doubt ... and then later in the relationship we see that the 'little doubt' should have been taken note of.

RE: Hello ..anyone here in Scotland?

The road to the slopes is closed ... I reckon anyone attempting to climb the hill will be carried off, Mary Poppons style, by the firce winds!
Lots of rain during the night though, so the snow will soon be gone ....

RE: Hello ..anyone here in Scotland?

hello from snowy Glen Shee in perthshire Scotland

RE: Favorites

Hi, my name is Jan. Here are a few of my favourite things

Favourite smells ... the scent of my horse when my nose is burrowed into her mane ... puppy breath, cows breath, sheep, silage ..... the smell of the pine forest after rain ... the sweet smell of heather.. the gorgeous smell of fresh, clean clothes dried on the washing line ...

I love freedom ... love to be out on the hill on horseback ... roaming the glen with the dogs trotting along beside us ...

I love a picnic by a waterfall in the Highlands of Scotland .. particularly if it shared with someone special ..

My favourite food varies ... but I always LOVE chocolate

My favourite drink is elderflower cordial

My favourite classical music is Pachabels Cannon in 'd'

Favourite film is 'sliding doors'

The best feeling in the world is of being loved and in love.

RE: i found a dead rat today !...should i inform its next of kin ? if so how do i find out who they are

Don't inform the next of kin ... let them come looking for him - then whack them over the head with a shovel

RE: What are three best things about being single?

Hmmmm ... the three best things about being single ....

I cannot think of any ..... or at least nothing that would be better than sharing it ... But with 'the right person' ....

With the right person in your life, you should be able to do any of the things you normally do when you are single - and have the added bonus of sharing your life with someone who respects your individuality, your space, your feelings ... a mutual respect - so you can both grow, develop, support each others aims, listen to each others dreams, make plans together ...





Okay okay ... I will keep trying to think of something good about being single ... Lol

RE: Are you between 38 and 48 and single in Scotland with no kids???????

No children or children who have grown up and gone?
Male or female?

I am single (now) and my children have grown up and live far away.

Do you mean that there are not many single people in Scotland of that age group with no children at all?

RE: How often do you mop your kitchen floor?

'' .......when I was in a relationship we actually found that house cleaning was an interesting way of getting a little dirty..........
Man I miss those days..........................Sigh..................... '' (above)



glad Im not the only one!! hee hee hee

RE: How often do you mop your kitchen floor?

I have four dogs .... lots of mud .... no point mopping!! Lol

RE: How often do you mop your kitchen floor?

RE: How often do you mop your kitchen floor?

Mop the floor??

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RE: hi guys n girls

You scared her off chef!!

RE: hi guys n girls

Hi and welcome to the site

RE: If you’re pet could talk what would it say

My dogs would be saying 'Are we going out again?'

My fat shetland pony with the memory of a goldfish would be saying 'Is it dinner time?'

My Big black beautiful horse would be saying 'More polo mints please!'

My cat would be saying ' prrrrrawns please' (heh heh heh - in her dreams!!)

My ducks would be saying ' Wish the ice would melt, we want a swim!'

My two cockerels, Major Stirling and Wing Commander Jonesy would be arguing over the cute wee chick, Henny Penny, probably offering each other challenges and being so engrossed in their duals that they don't see Henny Penny falling in love with the Muskovy Drake ...

RE: liketo get no people bit more will a me this 3 Q pleas

Marriage song .... Marthas Harbour

New baby song - Newborn friend (seal)

Funeral song ..... Prayer for the dying (seal)

RE: Describe yourself in one word?

'Happy'

RE: RIGHT MISERABLE LOT`

NO I DON'T AGREE!!

I Think the ladies on this site are kind, funny, supportive, and not in the least bit miserable !

RE: Hmmmm So How Do You Hurt Mens Feelings?

Ooops ... Lol

Er .... hope I didn't hurt your feelings!

RE: Hmmmm So How Do You Hurt Mens Feelings?

Hopefully you do not want to hurt a mans feelings on purpose .... or anyones feelings for that matter ...

it depends on how sensitive a person is as to how you hurt their feelings I guess .... some people get upset if you tease them in fun (when you actually like them very much but they take it the wrong way)

other people are less sensitive, can laugh at themselves and take no offence when teased.

Are you asking this because you aim to hurt a mans feelings, or because you have had your feelings hurt personally, or just generally interested in how feelings can be hurt?

RE: how does the number of divorces one has acquired effect your opinion of them?

I think 'THE REASON' for the divorce is very important. I personally do not feel concerned about how many times a person has been divorced ...

after all ......

Some people do not have many divorces under their belt, but may have a lot of 'living together' relationships that have failed ...

You should not judge any person - we are all different, and if we are blameless then let us cast the first stone ....

RE: Do You Follow Your Heart Or Your Head

If you JUST use your head, it would be very clinical - and may even be construed as 'Gold-digging' - ie choosing a partner for specific qualities.
If you JUST use your heart, you may find yourself being 'used' and being on an emotional roller-coaster.

Use BOTH your heart and your head - allow emotional involvement but also good old common sense, and there is a chance your relationship may work.

RE: hunger thingies

sorry raasay .... slap my pandies .... but you have to admit .... bacon and eggs .... mmmmmmm!

RE: How Rude

I guess the secret is to not take it personally when some one doesn't reply

RE: How Rude

I agree - even if you get a great many messages, takes but a few seconds to reply.

BUT .... if someone didn't reply, it is clear they are not the sort of person I would like to be friends with anyway

RE: hunger thingies

Yay! A decision was made!

would have been bacon and eggs for me .... with fried bread .... mmm yummy!