You first. I do think that you could have left these best male friends of yours at your house. I cannot understand why you feel you had to be there!
Your friend. Whatever the reason that you were unable to take her to the aiport, she should really not be reacting in this manner.
I think you gave a poor, weak excuse for being unable to take her. Just say no. You are an adult, you do not have to explain yourself. If a friend asks me something, I gave one of two answers, 'Yes' or I can't, I am sorry' Even with my friends of 35 years. There are no arguments or falling outs, we all know where we are.
She has reacted badly and I think she is being silly in igoring your calls, clearly she feels snubbed and let down.
I would suggest writing a card, sticking it through her door and let her decide whether you mean anything to her.
She is the one who feels that she does not want to talk, then let her decide if she does.
Make your apology, write it to her, always a good effort is a handwritten card or note.
Nobody is trying to make any one fearful and you know well enough that is not what he is about.
I am all about alternative medicines, I hate taking any medication and I find it interesting what you are doing and studying. I am always mind over matter and having a healthy mind to me, is what keeps me physically healthy.
If Austria force a vaccine, then I will have it and if the goverment advise that all people working with children have it, not a national force, then I will not be taking any chances.
Certainly not at the risk of losing my job and risking passing on a little known about virus.
In the meantime, until that happens, I do everything I can to maintain health that I was blessed with, with a good diet, exercise and that manages to keep ill health away from me.
Oh my son was devastated at 18 too. I really was quite concerned, I thought he would never recover.
So hard to see him like that, but what he appeared to want was his mum, we had lots of duvet days, where I let him cry, I did make him his favourite foods, lots of ice cream, we give it to children when they hurt and I let him get it out of his system. I let him make the choices on how fast he wanted to with himself and after two weeks he began going out again and feeling better...
I feel for you, never easy seeing our little ones go through it, but we cannot stop the pain, I am certain he will come through it...
I cannot bear it when people microwave jacket potatoes, do you know how long it takes to cultivate a potato? And then we wreck in ten minutes...
Okay, wash potatoes. Then smear with olive oil and Maldon sea salt.
Sling in the oven on 220degrees, for an hour.
You will have the crispest, most delcious tasting spuds ever and if any person is on a low sodium diet, the sea salt can be scraped off before diving into all that fluffiness.
Salad dressing.
Takes three minutes.
Olive oil Balsamic vinegar Honey Mustard (Dijon, I use for this) Creme fraiche.
All in a jar with a lid on, shake. If too oily, add a dash of vinegar, if too vinegary, add more honey, takes some fiddling around with, but fabulous to get it to taste just right. No more bottles of bought stuff in the fridge.
I'll do more.
Do you know what my landlady made for me today? Cheese and Onion pie like we used to have in the North... Oh I died and went to heaven.
Give us your recipes folks...
Keep it simple, though. I don't do measuring, I do tasting and guessing, for everyday food, only baking. Too hot to bake.
Oh don't be Marki, it is okay, I have these moments where I do feel a bit pissed off at that, but I soon get over it.
I suppose, in reality, while I am happy on the whole and I may never have had another child, it is the fact that the choice has gone, a choice I decided to remove, because I thought we would bae 2'4 children, a house, a mortgage and a dog. Which we were, then it all sort of went wrong...
No regrets, no sadness, no bitterness, just reflections.
Sommerauer71 Forum Posts (12,414)
He overworks them...
RE: Selfish
I've been musing over this one.You first. I do think that you could have left these best male friends of yours at your house. I cannot understand why you feel you had to be there!
Your friend. Whatever the reason that you were unable to take her to the aiport, she should really not be reacting in this manner.
I think you gave a poor, weak excuse for being unable to take her. Just say no. You are an adult, you do not have to explain yourself. If a friend asks me something, I gave one of two answers, 'Yes' or I can't, I am sorry' Even with my friends of 35 years. There are no arguments or falling outs, we all know where we are.
She has reacted badly and I think she is being silly in igoring your calls, clearly she feels snubbed and let down.
I would suggest writing a card, sticking it through her door and let her decide whether you mean anything to her.
She is the one who feels that she does not want to talk, then let her decide if she does.
Make your apology, write it to her, always a good effort is a handwritten card or note.
My suggestions.