RE: Indulge me........

thumbs down QUIT inciting fights, Looking! doh There are MORE than enough, that occur here, WITHOUT YOU encouraging more! sigh help moping

RE: How many women are seeking a man to relocate to their area

thumbs up There are manifold facets to EVERY question! handshake And too few people consider them. And those that do, tend to see only the major questions, and only examine them superficially. doh An interesting object lesson on unexpected affects/effects of things that PROBABLY AREN'T considered, in most cases! GOOD post, PK! hug head banger cheering

RE: How many women are seeking a man to relocate to their area

confused I've been reading along on this thread, chris, and, from ALL your posts, I get the impression that you're attempting to use this thread to SOLICIT women! You're "advertising" your "benefits" WAY TOOOOOO HARD, for a discussion group, chris! doh IF you have to advertise yourself, so much, ESPECIALLY with all THOSE bebes, It makes me wonder what problems you have tucked away, UNADVERTISED! As, with "ALL THAT" going for you, you SHOULD BE swamped! And NOT have to "advertise", at all! dunno Just saying it MIGHT BE something you want to think about/consider. Are you trying to SELL yourself, or attract somebody that likes you, because of YOU? comfort cheers

RE: Please add on yours

wave I could add 1,000,001, here. But it all boils down to 1 thing, insincerity. I DISLIKE ANY and ALL forms of insincerity! We have ENOUGH plastic things, in the world, today, WITHOUT adding plastic people to the list! doh cheers hug peace

RE: What would you like to read or see on the forum?

thumbs up I gave you a thumbs up for THIS post, Rachie! applause cheering hug

RE: What would you like to read or see on the forum?

thumbs up While THAT IS true, Rachie, for the VAST majority, (I think) it's relatively IRRELEVANT!

Appearance catches the eye! But PERSONALITY captures the heart!

grin hug cheers joy cartwheel gotta go danceline

RE: What would you like to read or see on the forum?

confused Have you EVER contemplated a woman's 42 DD's, when she's 50, M? doh NOT as attractive as they were, at 23! Smaller breasts DON'T end up at belly button level, when a woman ages! So the woman DOESN'T seem/appear AS "old", when she has smaller breasts! Which, while MANY men ARE attracted to LARGE (EXAGGERATED feminess) breasts, at a young age, they're MORE attracted to the youthfulness, at an older age! We ALL like to THINK of ourselves as "younger", once we get over 35!

And I've GOTTA ask!? WHAT are we supposed to make, out of that EXTRUDING tongue, in your NEW primary photo? INTERESTING! But CURIOUS? laugh hug cheers grin

RE: What would you like to read or see on the forum?

rolling on the floor laughing THAT COULD BE remedied - easily enough, M! grin And you have ONLY your "discriminating" taste to blame, anyway! doh As you've stated NUMEROUS times, you HAVE been approached, with THAT object in mind, on PLENTY of occasions! wow You're young and fit! Shouldn't be ANY PROBLEM, for such a woman as yourself, to remedy! head banger banana cheering

RE: What would you like to read or see on the forum?

doh Yes! You're RIGHT, Serene! But saying "interesting topics OTHER THAN politics" IMPLIES/INSINUATES that she thinks politics IS interesting! Or is THAT a little TOOOO subtle, for you to pick up on, Serene? You're WELCOME to look over your glasses, but trust me, that sort of subtle "looking down on me" propaganda DOESN'T WORK, on/with ME! You're NO MORE an "authority" figure, than ANYBODY ELSE, on this, or any other thread! wave You wanna try to pick on me, and wish to start a war of intimidation, with me, bring it on, girl! IF you haven't figured it out yet, I have NO PROBLEM with a war of words! I ENJOY a good knock down, drag out brawl! thumbs up love cheers dancing rolling on the floor laughing

RE: What would you like to read or see on the forum?

confused Define group mentality for me, please, Rachie? dunno I didn't know that groups had a common brain! Now, IF you had said "MOB mentality", I would have understood, explicitly! But, in "groups" (such as the forums, there is USUALLY a diversity of thought and opinion. Or are you saying that you wish there wouldn't be any diversity of thought and opinion? It's NOT entirely clear, Rachie! That's why I'm asking. doh sigh grin

RE: What would you like to read or see on the forum?

rolling on the floor laughing Riz, "I" LIVE in southern California! And TRUST ME, on this! Bananas DON'T RIPEN, NATURALLY, in SoCal! Yes. You can and WILL see banana trees, here! But you're NOT going to EAT any bananas from those trees! Certainly, banana trees, as well as ALL plants, CAN BE artificially manipulated. And I think that Monsanto has probably created a few GMO bananas, by now. But I've been in EVERY CORNER of southern California, and NEVER seen cultivated bananas!

But you ARE right, about Hawai'i. Yes. Bananas WILL grow, NATURALLY, THERE!

But, as IS USUALLY the case, WITH you, you get your info out of books! And know NOTHING about REAL life! You OUGHTTA LEAVE your ivory tower once in awhile, Riz! Get out in the REAL world! MIGHT be enlightening, for you! And you wouldn't propagate such skewed information as you do. And, I MUST admit that the USA produces bananas, it's production, by total volume weight, is insignificant. Your posts says that the US is maybe the 4th or 5th largest producer of bananas, while, according to the banana industry statistics, the US doesn't even rank in the top 50 banana producing countries in the world! El Salvador, Costa Rica and Panama, whose COMBINED area (in km squared) DOESN'T equal that of Florida, alone, produce OVER 500 times the amount of bananas (by weight) as ALL of the USA (including Hawai'i)! As of 2013 (since you wish to deal in book figures) the top 10 fruit and vegetable foodstuffs, produced in the USA, are (as of 2013) corn, soybeans, wheat, sugar beets, potatoes, tomatoes, sorghum (from which molasses is pressed), rice, grapes and oranges. Bananas have NEVER appeared in the top 20 list of fruits and vegetables produced in the USA. The USA does NOT even appear in the top 75 banana producing countries in the world. So, to say that the US us a major producer of bananas for the world's markets is ENTIRELY incorrect AND misleading! But you're GOOD at that, Riz! We CERTAINLY don't even produce enough for OUR OWN consumption! And, as even YOUR post states, banana production is DECREASING, in Hawai'i, the USA's LARGEST banana producer! India is the world's largest producer of bananas, producing approximately 1 in 5 of ALL the world's bananas. WELL OVER 1,600 TIMES AS MANY BANANAS, as the USA.

So IF you wish to argue "facts" with me, PLEASE, get FACTS, Riz! And DON'T present them in slanted ways. Trust me, on this, Riz, IF you want to get into a MISREPRESENTATION war, with me, I've got MORE EXPERIENCE at producing "propaganda", than YOU do! I DO live (and SURVIVE) in the REAL world, where hyperbole is practiced EVERY day! While you live in a world of books! NOTHING against books! I LOVE books! But IF books are your ONLY source of info, you're MISSING MOST of the world/life/existence! doh comfort

RE: What would you like to read or see on the forum?

rolling on the floor laughing At LEAST I can spell it! YOU can't even spell "Well"! laugh But what's your problem, Blind man? You're SOOOOO uptight, you can't even enjoy a joke on YOUR joke? thumbs down You're actually BECOMING the "trying" person you apparently dislike! uh oh comfort bouquet grin

RE: Say Anything

rolling on the floor laughing THAT is easy enough to believe, Lee! thumbs up But I HAVE to give credit where credit is due! handshake You owned up to it, without another poster poster pointing it out! cheers That's a step in the RIGHT direction! applause head banger cheering

RE: Music.....(No Cheese)

And another song that touches chords on my heart! wine

RE: Music.....(No Cheese)

rolling on the floor laughing One man's cheese is another man's Quiche, Bogart! dunno But then, you haven't walked my roads, nor I, yours. cheers You seem to be under the impression that I'm wound a little tight! But I guarantee you, that I'm one of the MOST laid back and easy going people you might ever meet! Sure, I've had my problems. We ALL do. But problems are only fun new puzzles, to me. I LEARN MORE from my "problems", than I do from my successes. And it's the problems I've overcome that make up the majority of my memories. I don't regret them. I don't have any "anger" about any of them. I actually enjoy the memories I have, of my difficulties. And recalling them is a positive, to/for me. Adds that little bit of extra confidence that will help me get over my present and future "problems". That "I CAN do this!"ness, that prevents me from becoming a quiter. So, while YOU may not like to "wallow" in the memories of the "hard" times, I enjoy music that talks to me of the difficulties I've overcome.

So here's ANOTHER "cheesey" one, for you. I've been here. LIVED this life! I have NO URGE to live it AGAIN! But, hearing it, remembering it, IS a fond memory! "I" did/will/SHALL overcome! If you can't hang, let ME help you!



Life's ONLY as tough as you make it! cheers yay peace grin

RE: What would you like to read or see on the forum?

Yes, we KNOW, Looking! You're VERY "TRYING"! rolling on the floor laughing cheers

RE: What would you like to read or see on the forum?

doh WHAT, pray tell, Funny Girl, IS interesting, about politics! confused dunno

RE: What would you like to read or see on the forum?

doh Do you know that the recommended portion of a banana is only HALF a banana, M? (I know! Shook ME up, when I found out from a dietician, too! WHO eats HALF a banana? confused ) And more than 2 are NOT recommended! (Get your fruits ELSEWHERE, folks!) Now, you workout a lot, M, so you may need some of banana's nutrients, such as potassium, more than others. But 5 a day IS excessive, by ANYBODY'S measure! dunno \

And, since you have some "tropical" areas, downunder, WHY would bananas cost $5 a kilo? At THAT price, ALL of northern Ausssieland would be planted in bananas, by now, I would think! I get them, here - as a matter of fact, I brought some, yesterday, for $0.39 USD per pound, which would work out to be a little less than $1 USD per kilo! I KNOW the Australian dollar isn't a 1 to 1 exchange rate, with the USD, but it's a damn sight closer that a 5 to 1 ratio! And we don't have ANYPLACE (except MAYBE a small part of Florida) where bananas will actually ripen, here in the US! ALL our bananas are imported. wow conversing hug

RE: Current Thoughts (Cont)~~

confused And WHO ever said that life HAD TO BE "fun", Said? dunno And what makes you think that the birds and the bees are having "fun"? Do THEY have jet skies? Or drunken birthday parties? sigh dancing grin

RE: Indulge me........

doh Okay, M. Just for you. You're making an erroneous assumption. You're saying "I" want "something", here. I don't "want" anything - here. I hope to maybe make a few friends, here. But I have no expectations of doing so. (And, actually, I've already exceeded my hopes, in that direction.) Just as I have no expectations of hitting the lottery and finding a mate, here. I don't try to "mold" life, anymore. I make the best out of what lands on my doorstep. And that's enough, for me. I don't have some "goal" that needs to be reached. I have all I "need". I don't have any driving ambition to collect a bunch of "stuff" that will be as much "burden", as "benefit". Or bunch of acquaintances. Nowadays, I'm just satisfying my curiosity and enjoying life. I interact with people, so that I can improve my knowledge of people. Not because I want/need/expect anything of/from any of them. I try to contribute the little knowledge I have, to the discussions, occasionally. But whether a person accepts that information, and uses it, or doesn't, is not a concern of mine. I have no problem with people making mistakes that I've already made. We learn more from our mistakes, than we do from our successes. So I'm fine with people ignoring my thoughts. And you, like everybody else, here, see me as lecturing you. And I can see/understand people perceiving me that way. But I quit trying to teach people, a long time ago. I'm not lecturing anybody. I'm just laying my experience and understanding in front of anybody that might be interested in, or be able to benefit from, my somewhat varied and wide ranging background. And I get in the face of those I feel are trying to "use", and/or intentionally mislead people, here. I take almost no part in the lighthearted banter/flirting that goes on, here. But I do observe it.

And you give me this statement, "Sometimes in life we give up the little things so to make life easier for others." And I'll agree that we all give a little, and take a little. But my curiosity runs to why does everybody wish me to conform to their wants and needs, without any reciprocity, to/for my wants and needs? I'm supposed to change, to make them happy! But they're unwilling to change to make me happy! I don't tell everybody to write, with capitals! So that I can read what they're emphasizing, more easily. And so, better comprehend their meanings/intentions. I struggle on, with no complaints. (Except those I get, when I make a comment that what somebody's said is unclear! And then I get told I'm supposed to be a mind reader!)

I appreciate that you are trying to help me, M. But you're trying to help me be somebody you like. Somebody other than who I am. I "read" your "good intentions"! But I have no compulsion to be "good". I have no urge to be the person anybody (other than me) thinks I should be. I don't ask for approval. I don't "need" approval. And I've spent some amount of my life and time, consciously and purposely discouraging approval. (I've had to deal with the perils of being "popular", before.) I have no problem with being the "odd man out". You asked me nicely, so I've conformed myself. But I won't conform myself to other's "telling" me what I should do! Or how I should be. If you like me, or don't like me, that's your business. But, in either case, it's gonna be "me", not somebody else, you like or dislike. In most ways, I'm no different than anybody else, here. But, in several fundamental ways, there's nobody else, here, like me. hug grin

RE: Indulge me........

But I DON'T do it it for YOUR fun, M! I do it for MY fun! And everybody wants me to BE somebody OTHER than WHO I am. I just don't see any particular reason why I should confine myself to ANYBODY'S prison! I'm an adventurous, creative, fun loving and free soul! And I LIKE myself, that way. Do "I" ask YOU to quit going to the gym? WOULD YOU, IF I asked? I sorta doubt it. And it would NEVER OCCUR to me, to ask you to be anything OTHER THAN who/what you are! It's just NOT "IN" my nature. I'm NOT a person who cuts down a forest and paves it over, so I've got a convenient parking place. Instead, I'll look for a wide space between the trees, and park there. And IF I can't find a wide spot, in the trees, maybe I'll look for a different way to get/be in that place. And, IF it's a big enough irritant, to me, I won't cut down the forest, I'll just search out ANOTHER place to spend my time. The people that complain about my use of capitals, and call it "screaming", are just dyed in the wool stick in the muds! Their just "comfortable", in their insulated little worlds! And DON'T LIKE ANYTHING that "disrupts" their "comfort zone". They're intolerant, inflexible, non-creative, unadventurous, and LOCKED in the homemade prisons of their own "boxes"! When you become INCAPABLE of ADAPTING, you might as well commit suicide, because you're just WAITING to die, anyway!

You're making the MISTAKE of thinking I'm DOING something TO/FOR you, M! I'm NOT! I'm doing something TO/FOR ME! I'm NOT asking ANYBODY, HERE, or ANYWHERE, to "like" me! Life is NOT a popularity contest! At least, NOT to/for ME! When I lay my head on my pillow, at night, YOUR being happy, with/abut me, YOUR "liking" me, DOESN'T help me to get to sleep! MY being "happy" - with ME, DOES! MY "liking" me does! NOT having regrets, and/or sorrows does. NOT having unfinished business does. I DON'T MIND working with people. Or doing things FOR people. But I WON'T BETRAY MYSELF, for ANYBODY! I'm ME! JUST me! Like me, or hate me! THAT is YOUR problem! Take what you like, or what you find useful, to YOU, and leave the rest! I'm FINE with that. But DON'T ASK ME to me somebody else! comfort hug bouquet teddybear

RE: Indulge me........

confused No. dunno doh cheers grin

RE: What do u want Most in ur Life......?

thumbs up But IF you learn to look at it right, Miwagi, you DON'T NEED a ticket! You're ALREADY HERE! And this IS heaven, if you have the right mindset! handshake cheers grin

RE: What do u want Most in ur Life......?

rolling on the floor laughing Thanks for my required daily dose of laughter, M! I APPRECIATE that! thumbs up cheering hug grin

RE: Indulge me........

And WHY do you assume that two assertive people can't won't get along, Pedro? confused It depends on OTHER factors than their "dominance". Two strong personalities CAN get along very well, as long as there is mutual respect. Actually, two strong personalities can make the BEST teams , possible! ESPECIALLY if they have complimentary strengths! They'd be TOUGH to beat! JMO handshake cheers grin

RE: Love Songs



Thank you, Miwagi! That's both a song and a singer I'm unfamiliar with! And, as a fan of music (ALL genres), I'm ALWAYS glad to hear something new from someone I don't know. Thanks! And, since you (apparently) like that folkish country kinda thing, here's one you may not be familiar with. Enjoy! cheers grin

RE: Love Songs




Just thought you might enjoy a little change of pace/feel. hug grin

RE: Love Songs



A soft song, for soft moments. This one was written by Antonio Carlos Jobim, and the first time I heard it was in the 60's, done by Stan Getz, Joao Gilberto and Antonio Carlos Jobim. But they couldn't find a singer, so they enlisted Joao's wife, Astrud, who happened to be at the recording session, to sing it. That version has a Latin Bossa Nova phrasing, which I prefer. But it's in Portuguese, and I thought most of you would like to be able to understand the lyrics of the song, as this IS a love song thread. So I chose Diana Krall's version, for you. hug grin

RE: Love Songs



Somebody a little more UP TO DATE, for you, this time around. Hugs and kisses, all. hug grin

RE: Love Songs




Somebody that a lot of you probably AREN'T familiar with, but I've been listening to him since the 60's. NOT everybody's taste, but I like him. hug grin

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