I have been many times attacked with shark bites, in clique or individually, and I am still learning how to conqure my own temptations ... in firing back with torpedo.
Very nice of you to appologise, great example of sencire regret for hurting someone. Wish everyone is like that. I don't know what is about or to who this is intended to.... but if person left for good ...it might be too late.
I don't want to go in circle that leads nowhere. I didn't ask you to fight my battle and you shouldn't have that expectations from me to resque you eather. The need to announce about banning 'xy' is to let him know, that his bad behaviour, throwing insoulting tantrum will not be tolerated and because I can predict his pattern of misbehaviour in continuing making new post as parody to my post ! I know his nature for years, being serial provoker and no matter how many times I've choose to be forgiving and give him another chance, it seems like just giving numerous chances to a scorpion, to bite you with toxic poison again and again. We all make mistakes and have flaws..... but some people never learn and continue with minimization, veiled humour and patronization, seeking out flexible target and hoping that their bad behaviour in never addressed ! I don't ever feel guilty about removing poison person. Emotional intelligence requires healthy boundaries for self and in relation to others. I might not be the expert example / model how I choose to respond,but is my choice to set my personal boundaries with self and others and you choose for yourself. I admire people who wisely learned to only say "Thank you for giving your view point " to any aggressive attack as in that way, conflict is not aggravated to waist energy and time on arguments, especially when is done intentionally insoulting with rudness of an ugly soul. We can't change someone who doesn't see an issue in his/ her BS talk in devaluing another person but if comment is made with some pleasent sensitivity and constructive criticism to make another learn, I accept that. I don't wish to discass the same thing further.... Thank you for your contribution.
Yes, I can point at myself, indeed. Actually, anyone can see self - inside this beautiful quote! Why do you choose to see only negativity ? It's meant to be inspirational and not for fighting /arguing purpose but if you choose to see only negative..... you're missing the point.
First, I like to express my admiration for your confidence to include yourself in discussion, as you said yourself in another post, how you feel limitation in expressivness, and I think, you're doing great in exercising a different language, and another language is not just a language but much, much more, which opens every door to perceive a different world, a different vision of life, another way of think about things and includes specific culture that broadening perspective, which is a gift in being bilingual. I am happy to see that many people shows genuine encouragment and appreciation that you speak forign language and if you ever come accross to people who try to redicul your expressions in any way, ignore them and don't ever let anyone to demage your confidence in self and I think, that's where Emotional detachment helps to stringten our Emotional Intelligence. In regard to your question, I am not the expert, we're all in process of learning, and I hope you find some answers in presented videos and dialogy with others.
Bearwomen I like to share with you quote I find deep in relation to your question, it's quote from Rene (don't remember his other name ) I think he is a French writer: " You only fight well for causes you yourself have shaped, with which you identify- and burn."
This argumentative example might be a good one to exercise Emotional intelligence for anyone who's looking inside and outside. Please read post 41 than compere with Let us post. Perhaps you don't see any difference in given attitude, where I see huge difference,as 41 post and other of his posts (before I banned him) is tottaly inappropriate - disrespectful - undermining my person, while Let us ask you question that might made you feel uneasy but he did it in a polite way (just as you ask me politely question too, that I might found as 'nitpicking my words' in a negative connotation - but what I choose to see is a Humour !) and now when you see something more to Let us post that touches you, you choose to see similarity, because it's about you ? I haven't notice that anyone here is so horrible loyal to me to involve myself fighting another person battle. Setting my personal boundaries, when to show sympathy, to be broad-mind enough to empathize or when to detach and distance myself, is my choice, just as you read nasty posts directed towards me and it didn't bother you to jump galloping on the horse as knight - errant or a great native Indian warrior .....to fight my battle.Lol I don't expect from anyone to fight my battles, we all make our own choice, what we see as worth battle to fight for self or which battle is not worth, or if we going to choose challenges of dialogue enthusiastically, or to make a humour out of all, or if we're going to simple let go because some times the fight is all you get. There's countless possibilities in any situation, choice is for each of us to chose which different experience in life is good for our personal development or not. I think the most difficult battle and the struggles is with ourselves, to conqure ourself, the invisible awaken warrior who have the fire ...and as good it may be at times to be strong and fearless to fight for a good course for balancing justice and for moral principals, and another time it might be just fight of Sir Don Quixote of La Mancha who unsuccessfully attack & fights on a windmills, who imagines windmills are giants, and windmills are real ! Find him in Wikipedia, is a Spanish novel by Miguel Dr Cervantes Saavedra, it's a parody of the romances of Cevantes's time, he rides out like knight - errant, searching for the same principles and goals and engaging in similar battles .... Hope my answer is clear.
I don't use a spell checker but it's a good idea. It is a vast subject and it can touch many things ....Thank you for your contribution. It's pleasure to have you around.
Emotional Intelligence: Using the Laws of Attraction | D. Ivan Young | TEDxLSCTomball
I have started reading from the bottom upwards and what you posted as replay to him, if that's all, if I didn't missed on anything,so fare, I do not see anything rude in his questions...
I find that some man who are not really interested much in this kind of observations to engage themselves, if they like women, they will do best to listen attentively - while eating you with eyes, probably thinking 'when she's going to stop this toucher' - looking for a 'give me a brake' time, to use this listening skill to get closer to women.
I think I answered on most of your questions true dialogs with other posters and don't wish to be a parrot as well you didn't left me enough space to say much. Yes, I did study children development, & disability / special needs, worked with all age from birth to adulthood. Don't expect from me too much personal details, all I can say, I do have a many years of experience in different field's connected with empowering people.
We can't and shouldn't give up to be organic self, no matter who will accept us or not, and if that means loosing 'friendship' that seeks only what they want to hear, let it be...it wasn't meant to be honest friendship anyway if I have to compromise, hide or surpresed my true self, my views and facts. If we want an easy way to recognize differences between pretending empath manipulators from genuine empathetic people, it's important to pay attention to the way someone speak about others or us and manipulators are certainly experts in engineering chaos.
Now, the post that for some, not complitely explained self - reason to me, touch me deeper... I like youre revolutionary spirit and compassion with empathy. You also dealt with lot's of battles when you expressed your political views, many where fighting against anything you said, and you survived and learned how to deal with them. It's always going to be those that project in you something that they want to take under control and destroy you, but people that you inspire and encourage to open their eyes will always be appreciative to learn ...
I hear that almost every day, in this or that discrete ways ... It seems that women biologically advences with their interests in social emotional studies - while Man seems to be less interested to discuss about EI and more interested in practical exams.
RE: Who is the Shyest CS Member
In my humble view, you're in the third place for shy man.We have to give women the first place, it's gentlemen duty.