The worst thing a man can be is a loser, the worst thing a woman can be is ugly. And it's because men are socially mobile and women are aristocratic. Men win or lose where women are guaranteed a certain rank which is at the same time limiting. A glass ceiling but also a much stronger social safety net. Whatever she says, whatever she has, whatever she thinks will be typical for the society she lives in.
Men won't mind this question, women will mind this question. Men explode in the heat of the moment, women mind about things more in a low miff that never quite goes away. Men are funny, women are always right. Men are challenged, women are agreed with the whole time. Men get paid, women get praised. Men are productive, woman seductive.
The differences are endless although much depends on cultural differences. Women are agreed with the whole time in the patriarchies as a type of joke - as long as you believe that dear that's all that matters. But in the west that joke isn't funny anymore, it's actually being serious; women's football in a cost of living crisis like a ridiculous Marie Antoinette figure who was also a woman. No expense spared for the woman's prerogative whilst the nation freezes and starved. They don't even like football, but still they know best.
In the old days they used to think that a schizophrenic was just a bit of a character and that's changed now. For the better I would argue. But it isn't always this right. And I wouldn't judge the 1970s by the standards of today because that would make every man over 50 a nonce. It would mean every baby boomer male getting viewed the same way that gays are by right wingers. But two wrongs don't make a right.
And that's really the point. If you can remember what really happened then whatever they say now can't be worth that much. Like depression being caused by low serotonin. Or lead in pipes or asbestos. You can't take the moment now at face value and this makes him an enemy of the state. To remember what really happened is a natural sceptic, it's open minded because you know it's not final, you know it's not final, tomorrow could contradict today just as today contradicts what they did yesterday.
And all this is an insult to those who expend enormous amounts of energy just to appear normal. All these normal people expending so much energy trying to appear different. It's not comfortable to actually be different and it's not easy to avoid going along with the madness that screams "now". It's easier to forget what happened yesterday and not think about tomorrow, it's easier to be conditioned by everything you're expected to be right now.
And also an aging population explains the tremendous power of convention. The population has congealed into kind of a grey ball and the truly random thing - the kids, are in short supply. The no normal is the new normal where the same generation lasts for a thousand years like an embalmed corpse, we live in a mummified state of live slow, die old - but it will claim to be the exact opposite of what it is. The narcissism wouldn't accept what it really is.
Yes well I think it's the equality for women that changed that. If talking to a woman I always qualify the statement I'd like to feel normal with the question whatever normal is? But I think women are normal whatever normal is. I believe that it's a compensatory entrancement with her own uniqueness because whatever the forces of convention are right now she will embody those forces. There's much less difference between one woman and the next compared to the world of men, they are all more normal whatever normal is.
The nation has turned against the people not on purpose the western establishment just doesn't know how to do anything in the real world. What can we expect except people going to political extremes?
The left perhaps because I'm left-handed and it's easier to turn off the bedside lamp, it's also slightly closer to the bathroom. Never really thought about why to be honest.
Gwen Stefani. She stayed cool when rock music really became about how angry you are at your parents for not buying you a PlayStation. You encounter two types of white people today and it's the rough and ready and the dorklings. Very little in-between but in the old days the head and the hands were united in a thinking man who can kick a ball straight.
Some expectations are to be met and others are to be defied. If she's written something unworthy she is going to expect you to like her post now, don't like her post. Everyone prefers the company of men but it does not always have to be this way and it begins with a thumbs down. It begins with fair play.
If you're poor encourage people to wash their hands in a pandemic.
If you're rich spit in the face of your neighbours for sending the poor to die like cattle in a cost of living crisis. Oppose the Marie Antoinette. It might seem all luxurious and nice but these people are killers.
If you have wealthy parents be a traitor to your class by understanding about not taking other people's stuff. The property of others is not yours and you betray the rich by understanding that other people's property belongs to them.
And if you have poor parents try to have some thoughts, dreams and reflections instead of being a gristlehead.
If money is no object you want to be the man strangely frugal. By that I mean don't wave a fist full of notes in her face. But in a recession the man with cash is king. You are counter cyclical i.e. not like everybody else.
A level of sobriety. Stumbling over mindless pissed is not courage if you're socially crippled by shyness you want to get yourself on the internet - a womb world where it's easier to fake extraversion because you don't need any confidence to chat to anyone. The internet relegates confidence and emphasizes stagecraft.
Make yourself the henchest, scariest looking man in town and walk around with a kitten sticking out of your backpack. Tell people that's your feminine side.
And here's one for the crooked lazy man. Buy a coffee from Costa, walk over to someone's Lamborghini and put your cup on the roof reaching down to the handle as though you were about to get in. And then get someone to take a picture of it, and then run off.
A nice pair of shoes and a look just that little bit less utilitarian(unless you're actually at work). Wear something else apart from jogging pants and that UK Power Engineering t-shirt with the stain on it.
And at least some understanding that the biceps mean nothing. All the power comes from your legs up into your core you know how women are in-touch with their bodies, how they still instinctively "get" how it works. Well he could do with that instead of working out like a buffoon as most men do.
And apparently now you're expected to have arms that look like lumps of stilton. Whole body that looks like stilton. Riddled with tattoos to look all earthy when there's nothing natural going on there, there's no story behind them. We live in an emasculated society and what men do then unnerves me, that they do it to themselves unnerves me.
It all essentially goes back to the cave. Even and especially in the 21st century, like growing a beard to disguise how worthless and pathetic you are. Disguise that soy boy jaw line the complete lack of one. That's an idea that's come from gay fashion designers been bluetoothed into the women and now sets the tone of western man.
If you can't stand up to her then you won't stand up for her. That's basically it. I mean she could be wrong. Maybe the man who can stand up to her would throw her under the bus but power trump's morality on this. It's just a man who fights his corner which isn't necessarily the noble corner. It might be, it might not be. It simply boils down to the power to act.
They like a large and somewhat hotheaded personality which they then try to turn into something altogether more child-friendly. Mother's don't raise their sons to be just the right level of intimidating that his father was when they met. Your mother loves you anyway and she'll skip the bit that is ugly about her desire and concentrate on trying to make a gentlemen out of you. Your mother isn't going to just start being difficult one day because she doesn't think women fancy you, you don't to remind her that you're worth something so she'll behave.
Well it's not really a question of forgiveness I think people just say they're unforgiving to try and not look like a pushover in a room full of people you don't trust. It's a monopoly of vulnerable narcissism too insecure to let the guard down, but if push came to shove maybe it would do something rather different. It's only because it's not real life that the hard man and strong woman are as loud as they are, it's a defence mechanism amongst these strangers suspicious of everyone they meet.
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RE: amazing creation of nature : MEN and WOMEN
The worst thing a man can be is a loser, the worst thing a woman can be is ugly. And it's because men are socially mobile and women are aristocratic. Men win or lose where women are guaranteed a certain rank which is at the same time limiting. A glass ceiling but also a much stronger social safety net. Whatever she says, whatever she has, whatever she thinks will be typical for the society she lives in.