Anyway player implies a man with options prepared to do the bad thing with those options when really it's the options themselves she's attracted to. The talent to sleep with lots of women, the men women go for could be a player potentially and I imagine that she hopes to be the reason that he isn't. Women want to be your one and only based on the understanding that she is optional. That's how it works
Interesting poll result I wonder why is it always 80% of any group that takes the path of least resistance? We see this over and over again. And this is why we don't want a team earth a whole world united under one system because you can only stop the lies from outside the group. Every in-group is brainwashed and can only be stopped externally.
Just to end this on a note of optimism the misery now upon is just the passing of weak, the silliness and decadence of those who don't know the meaning of the word suffering. But it is because of these dark times that the lights will one day shine all the brighter. Strong people will rise from the ashes like a phoenix only hard times make strong people and only strong people make good times.
So long story short we don't know we are born. Money grows on trees and when you're born out of one womb you land straight into another(at least in this country, at least until recently).
Well the idea was to have fewer/better/older people that live for eternity. The boomers were meant to be the great leap forward but they've turned out horrible. We free humanity from the stress of necessity at our own peril. All the luxury of choice didn't translate into a generation of ultra-mature people who always think long-term. Far from it. And having all the best arrangements made for you didn't repeat unto the generations which, if we can expect the unexpected, might turn into a positive.
If you can make up your mind without stoning curiosity to death then I think you'll have the balance of the world. Order a meal that isn't the same meal every week without having to check what everyone else is eating first. That's attractive in a man, to make up your mind without that being the same mind constantly is actually decisive.
I think I've narrowed it down to honesty, trust, privacy and personal space. We belong to ourselves, we belong to each other, we don't belong to the general public more than anything else women look to men for a world for two. A place where you are really you and I am really me. Which is where the jokes come in. Laughing me is the real me and laughing you is the real you, vanity and lies powerless because comedy forces us to be honest there is simply no way to keep up appearances. To skillfully tear down appearances is all that women ask for.
To go on holiday for the holiday experience rather than going through the motions of being on holiday whilst filming it as an advert to raise status at home. As well as keeping their secrets what women get from men is a genuine day off. He introduces the idea of free time to a busybody who may not have a career but is nevertheless always at work, a real day off to a person who would otherwise makework out of free time.
Another thing that makes men more of a law unto themselves - to hear a secret something and not tell anybody about that something. What's anti-totalitarian about men is how much it hates a snitch or even talking too much in general. An agreement can be made between you and me that does NOT involve the big brother, the big other, or the whole town. What women get from men is their secrets safe with is. He's not going to betray you for a blip of approval from third parties.
A good example of this is the world of fashion. Although women follow fashion more than men all the best designers are men - typically gay men. The trendsetters are men even though men are less interested in fashion overall. Women are especially the followers of gay men who they don't feel will attack them. A gay man bound by the fact that he is gay.
Jokes, money and rebellion although not necessarily in that order. And by rebellion I mean original, innovative or self-determined, you're not bound by the law you're bound by your word. Your own rules, your own power to act, your own morality there is some difference between you the individual and the general public. He's less status quo than she is.
What kids from the urban sterile need is 6 months on a plantation to build immunity/character. Not quite the same, but a bit the same, as kids from Chernobyl how a few short weeks breathing the same British air that I have always known will extend their lives for years.
And I guess what the urban sterile does primarily, in its lack of exposure to nature, is equip/adapt your defences as though the greatest threat you encounter was another human being. And I suppose it is in the city. But the immune system has been with us from the beginning, it goes with the earthy life where the main focus of attention is how not to get eaten by a bear. People from the countryside have a different type of wits about them you could say that they have immunity instead of cunning. Like I say it's not other human beings you're primed to defend yourself from traditionally, it's the bear.
It has something to do with the urban sterile; the unloved and the unnatural in its cubicle as world. But are they really more allergic or are they just more likely to complain? Both is the answer to that. There is an historic march to precious that grows out of civilization, the more you have of that the more allergy there is going to be. The more civilised, the more allergy if you like.
Mass immigration will one day be seen in the same light as lockdown. Something that felt easy at the time but salts the earth for posterity. The last 30/40 years in the west imply a question that is becoming more pertinent everyday; how long can any people last through status and loans? In the west we are living through an era of widespread but declining aristocracy.
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RE: Do women want a player?
Anyway player implies a man with options prepared to do the bad thing with those options when really it's the options themselves she's attracted to. The talent to sleep with lots of women, the men women go for could be a player potentially and I imagine that she hopes to be the reason that he isn't. Women want to be your one and only based on the understanding that she is optional. That's how it works