Well from how I see it...thoughts are formed in our subconscious....all day everyday...its our conscious brain that recognise our thoughts, and that's only a fraction of what our subconscious forms. It's up to our conscious brain to control the thoughts we recognise. This is where mental health comes in. When the brain isn't firing right then our thoughts can consume us. This is where people who are strong of mind don't understand how anyone can believe a lying thought, but sadly suicidal people believe the lies their thoughts are telling them. That's the difference between someone believing their thoughts and knowing how to control them.
Of course you can.....people do it every day.... To ease their minds of worry , people with depression or some form of mental illness do it all the time. I don't see how you seem to think it's a foreign concept that people can lie to themselves.
Staying in marriages thay are no longer satisfying. Tricking yourself that your happy to be single when not. Etc etc etc
Well I still stand my description. Incorrect thoughts and lying thoughts are pretty much the same thing. Plus there is the thing of lying to one's self. But I guess that notion goes over some people's heads.
If I as a person never did a wrong doing...which is pretty much impossible. But for some reason I fell into a depressive state....and kept telling myself that I was a horrible person. Then is that the truth because I thought it or a n intrusive thought that has nothing to do with my own being.??
I believe that our thoughts are at times independent of us....like an intruder...ie the liar. Telling the person they are invading, lies...ie the one being lied to.
Both have to be open and honest about their feelings. I'm responding because I was in this very situation I was the one who wanted it , the other didn't. I suggested what you said....he said absolutely not. I left 6 months after that discussion when I put myself first for once in my life. Not bringing him down he is a wonderful man and had his reasons that are private. But with all the help I could give wasn't enough. So at the end of the day you have to sometimes put you first. Don't really like talking about it actually as I feel I'm betraying him...but he is a great man just not for me.
Christ no...my nephew is pretty much the same age...hahaha Poor pet just wants experience so he says. Should have directed him to my thread...would save him the hotel stays
Take a depressed person who keeps thinking they are a burden to everyone else and that the world would better off without them.
These thoughts arnt the person..these are intrusive thoughts of someone who hasn't fully got control on their own thought processes...whether medicated or not.
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RE: How would you like to sleep with your future partner?
And like that he is back in the room.Jesus typical