You are 100% right to be fair. I just thought that if they were as close to get to the stage of almost dating, that he might just take her aside and say "look I having this problem that we need to sort, you need to be accessible for me when I'm caring for your son, if t continues I'll have no choice but to report to my superiors" But if he hasn't felt there was that kind of relationship he should do what he has done. Chain of command is probably the better thing to do all round that way it leaves out the "he said, she said" argument.
When he reported you I think that's your clear answer there. He obviously has to come to your house daily or however frequent..he was going to run into you eventually....if he had not got the decent to air the problem face to face but rather report you then he isnt someone worth considering. I would also consider looking for a new career and possibly consider answering your phone no matter what given that theres someone in your house caring for someone you love.
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There has to be a limit...a boy going out with a woman old enough to be his mother is tragic. A young woman going out with a man who has dodgy hips and a pacemaker is just a tragedy. Once its within a 10 to ,at a stretch, 15 year gap then it's ok....IMO
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RE: Advice concerning a dating prospect
You are 100% right to be fair.I just thought that if they were as close to get to the stage of almost dating, that he might just take her aside and say "look I having this problem that we need to sort, you need to be accessible for me when I'm caring for your son, if t continues I'll have no choice but to report to my superiors"
But if he hasn't felt there was that kind of relationship he should do what he has done.
Chain of command is probably the better thing to do all round that way it leaves out the "he said, she said" argument.