Physical beauty doesn't work for me, although I must say all my "memorable" exes are what most women would say "pretty faces" quite funny ´cause I don´t really care but I guess it was important for my descendents hahahaha, eyes and hands are the only things I care about physical but not because beauty, eyes must be honest, clean and allow me to see what he has inside and hands strong ...capable to hold me if I fall (which eventually occurs but I do not show easily).
I´m primary attracted to intense, cerebral men those who are perceptive, innovative, secretive, and isolated. If he talks so much or shows off I´ll run over the hills and far away no way! hate pretencious men...I´ll dance and you´ll watch darling, but we will dance together privately. So yes, I have a pattern, MY pattern which is not guarantee of success at all but makes things easier...eventually.
In any case we may be attracted to someone for very different reasons, its all about time and opportunity, we should be open to try out of our "comfort zone" ´cause we move and change, some times you just want fun or friendship, it depends what are you looking for at that precise moment and who you cross your path with. One size doesn´t fits all but knowing what you want and suits you its fundamental if you want to avoid errors in true relationships. . “If you know the *enemy* and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the *enemy*, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the *enemy* nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.”
....I like heavy metal ...all music works for me (reggaeton is not music) but I prefer classic rock, instrumental and 60-70 pop balads ...don´t know.. was he so much into it? I mean was he listening at it the whole day? there is always things in common and others that not ...I´m quite flexible myself . Never considered music as an "important" compability issue but usuallly if I like somebody we have similar tastes in so many things. Food is much more important for me as an example....pretty important.
Looks are not "really" important for me ....yeap...I´ve dated some better looking than me (I guess) as they were sort of famous TV people ...quoting Raf Simmons: "I'm usually very attracted to things that I can't define. If something's too clear, it's very often not inspiring to me anymore."
....but as I´m so curious must say almost figured out lol!
1) Know who you are and what do you have to "offer" 2) Check what do you want/need/like in someone. Is there a possibility to find that person in a dating site?
3) Go for it as many times as needed or rewind and try a different "supplier"
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