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Is flirting seen as a negative quality??

I havnt said anyone was wrong to say flirting is not nice, no more than you have said its wrong to flirt....

Maybe your picking me up wrong.
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Is flirting seen as a negative quality??

Totally get you actually haha wink ......that wink isnt suggestive nor flirtatious ok lol.
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Is flirting seen as a negative quality??

I do feel online can be a more heightened version of the person in real life...i do flirt but not as much as i would here....be that right or wrong.

No i dont see what you wrote as a personal attack but maybe you could provide me with an example of a time where i have made you feel uncomfortable through my flirting...and do you feel it was all initiated and continued by me or was i simply forcing the other to do it....im not saying this in a smart way but rather a way of learning about my interactions here and how they r viewed.

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RE: Say Anything

Maybe you should, Dedo..im sure you would love to hear from you on ocassion....dont lose touch...reach out handshake wink

RE: The moaning thread!

Like who?? And wat r they saying

Is flirting seen as a negative quality??

Same here, DF.
I dont set out to hurt anyone....its all playful banter....and unless i have specifically said to you 'i want to take it further' ...then i feel thats all it should be taken as...is playful banter....but realise now some are more sensitive to it than others.

Is flirting seen as a negative quality??

I agree, Chesney...its grating when some has only flirting in their arsenal and not much else...its as you said ..cold.

RE: Say Anything

I have also thought the same thing for a long time.
That there are people here with multiple profiles....their dominant one being the 'perfect' poster.....the other one being the one where they say what they really want to say.

Wonder do they have split personalities in real life too.

Is flirting seen as a negative quality??

Its true...you dont want to see my volcanic eruption of flirting....it wouldnt be pretty wink

Is flirting seen as a negative quality??

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RE: The moaning thread!

I didnt sleep much last night.
My washing is piliing up.
My car isnt running well.
I have a headache.

Ill be back with more moaning later.

Is flirting seen as a negative quality??

I do have boundaries and standards....ie...i dont flirt with you.

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RE: Ebooks or Treebooks

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Is flirting seen as a negative quality??

Exactly Rainbow.....its meant to be fun...
I dont think some people even realise that they flirt themselves at times with others....
Its all about perception and how we all view it too...some many feel one flirts and they themselves dont feel they have.

Is flirting seen as a negative quality??

Flirting when your are single and entitled to do so is not a bad thing.
One would assume people reign it in when in a relationship and show respect to their partner.
Im not half aa flirty in real life as i am here...so no i dont think we r all 100% the same as our online realities.

I agree that some can take it to mean an intent and thats where the problems arise and people need to thread cautiously.

But for me once in a relationship im so not the type to flirt with others...i keep it for him.

Is flirting seen as a negative quality??

Hi K.

Yes if i were with a guy then he would be the only one i flirt with...however bad that i really am at it..

I agree in getting to know someone it does help..if the intent is there to take it further.

Have always viewes flirting as harmless but my eyes have been opened here..so thats not a bad thing either.

I dont flirt with everyone either and find it grating when thats all someone does to communicate.

Is flirting seen as a negative quality??

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Is flirting seen as a negative quality??

Well reading the posts on here it seems leaning more to the dont flirt with just about anyone....i still feel theres nothing wrong once both r single...both know that the intent is just harmless fun etc...but some see it as a bad sign of character to do so.

So i guess just be careful in your dealings online grin

Is flirting seen as a negative quality??

Yes Marlindap..its personal choice thumbs up

Is flirting seen as a negative quality??

I agree with you thumbs up

Is flirting seen as a negative quality??

Well reading the posts on here it seems leaning more to the dont flirt with just about anyone....i still feel theres nothing wrong once both r single...both know that the intent is just harmless fun etc...but some see it as a bad sign of character to do so.

So i guess just be careful in your dealings online grin

Is flirting seen as a negative quality??

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RE: Do you know who likes or dislikes you here on forums

Brilliant.
Wholeheartedly agree
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RE: Would you kiss the person above you or pass ?

Ill get a pain in my jaw from all this kissin rolling on the floor laughing

RE: Would you kiss the person above you or pass ?

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RE: Would you kiss the person above you or pass ?

Dont go getting my hopes up laugh laugh

RE: Tone of voice

Pretty much, yes

RE: Dear Abby: Man uses security cameras to spy on stay-at-home wife

That is creepy.
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RE: Dear Abby: Man uses security cameras to spy on stay-at-home wife

That is creepy.
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RE: Wimpiest 'Men' in the world

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My thread..

Ive nothing to fear from your communication skills.........yet uh oh

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