I really haven't paid to much attention to really care who complains.Been spending too much time trying to do continue my own Physical therapy so I'm able to walk again.
When my adult sons were little and my husband was still alive we never did anything anything spontaneous depending on what it might had been.When traveling etc we always made plans ahead of time.
Then when my two adults enlisted in the military and one of them had received a honorable discharge because of a injury while still in the Army later on he attended college on his GI loan in the state where he resides now. During the holiday season a few years I contacted my oldest son to make travel plans to visit him I had to schedule plans to fit around his time in college during the time had would be be taking a final exams.I didn't just decide to drop in on him which would've been inconsiderate to him.
From the time I was a child I never tried to impress anyone.Never worried if I was popular,never chose to be part of the incrowd or showed hate for anyone.I act on this site the same as I do in real time.
RE: In your youth...Which sports were you good at?
In my younger years I was good at baseball,,bowling.