I actually have. I'm involved in the Comics Creators Club which meets once a week. There aren't many people in it unfortunately. Hopefully more will join.
I am a shy person and today I tried to move out of my comfort zone and outwardly show people something I am interested in by going to the Visual Arts and Music building on campus and playing my guitar there. I thought maybe people would notice and stop and have a conversation but no one seemed to care. A lot of my friends are too busy to hang out, they have either dropped out, or moved onto a different college. I've seen people from last semester that I know and a few are in my class but I rarely see them outside of class. One person stopped and he was someone I knew yet it was very briefly, since he had somewhere to go I guess. I feel maybe I could've done something more so people would notice me. There are times I want someone to talk to about similar interests and someone to talk to when I feel sad or distressed. I would do the same for them. Do you think it's something I did or that the people were too busy and/or didn't care? Please don't think that I am just going on about how miserable my life is. I feel lonely and I want to change that and it should mean something.
I don't always hang out there. I go for walks, go the college library, etc. I mean I'll even go into my room so they can be out in the living room alone together. Sometimes it's because I get the feeling I am bothering them by being out in the living room.
"get your own life" that doesn't sound judgmental at all.
So apparently I'm just a killjoy, spoiling everyone else's fun who doesn't have any friends and makes everyone else miserable. thanks you're real helpful... Just because I post on the forums on CS apparently implies I have no life.
There's nothing wrong with being happy and not being so serious, it's just the way she goes about it. I swear she sometimes acts like she hasn't matured past being 5 years old.
My college roommate's girlfriend acts very immature. It gets to the point where it gets annoying. I mean she has these childish antics and there are times she whines. There's nothing wrong with acting like a kid once in a while but I just want to tell her to "grow up, PLEASE!!" Apparently my roommate thinks it's cute when his girlfriend does things like that but I don't. How do I tell her in a way that isn't judgmental or so I don't come off as being a jerk?
Yes! maybe.. It's always great to have a woman's perspective.
I don't want her to break her New Year's resolution though. I mean besides I told her I was willing to be friends and get to know her better.
I drew a picture for her that I was going to give her but I may hold off on that. It's of Elecktra kissing Iron Man and he has lipstick on his mask and there's a billboard or Iron Man flying and leaving a trail of smoke in the shape of a heart. She really likes Elecktra and it's not to subtle in what it's trying to say.
I have doubts as to whether I am right for her anyways. She wants a man who can dance and specifically one that can salsa. I can't dance and I don't know how. I mean I can learn but yeah.. I don't think I'm right for her.
It looks like she isn't interested. She posted something on her Facebook saying..
" one of my new year's resolution's is not to have a boyfriend this year. I'm about five months in and successful so far...I want to go the whole twelve months...back me up friends...encourage me...I can do it! Being single is fun."
oh well.. there's always other fish in the sea as they say.
I wrote an e-mail to this girl on Facebook I like who is in one of my classes. She told me "I read your e-mail and it was very sweet." Does this mean "thanks for showing interest in me but no thanks"? She didn't say anything else to give me any sort of idea how she felt towards me. Thank you for reading this.
What I was thinking was to tell her my feelings for her and say to her that I want to get to know her better. I'm afraid if I tell her I like her that she will avoid me if her intent was to be friendly. I think something we could do together is maybe go to the coffee place on campus and read each other's stories. We are in the same Writing Horror, Science Fiction, and Fantasy class.
I know some of you are going to roll your eyes and say "you've posted something similar." Anyway there's this girl in one of my classes I am attracted to. There was this one time I was playing Rock Band during Thursday Night Rock Band on campus and she comes up to me and says "hi" and we talk. She says she'll stay and watch me sing a few songs on Rockband. She complemented me on the Crow robot I made telling me I was "really talented." She seemed really happy as if she liked being around me. Do you think that because she approached me that she is interested in me or was she being friendly? I mean I know you can't read minds but I'm wondering what you think might be going on. Maybe it's obvious and I am refusing to see it. I just don't want to misinterpret her intentions.
Yes but I try not to do it a lot. I don't want the person to think I am stalking them online. I know it sounds silly but I don't want people to think I am an internet creeper.
Feeling lonely
I actually have. I'm involved in the Comics Creators Club which meets once a week. There aren't many people in it unfortunately. Hopefully more will join.