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19 and never "done it"

Thank you.

feeling guilty

So there's this girl that's my best friend that I am interested in and she is interested in me. Technically I am not going out with her right now. We decided to be friends for now and get to know each other better. I like her and find her attractive in both her personality and her looks. The thing is I still find myself looking. I feel guilty because I find myself looking on dating sites for other women, thinking that maybe there's someone better suited for me. I like this girl and all but I find it uncomfortable how there are quite a few similarities as far as interests go. I am afraid that if we decide to become more serious about this that we'll end up like those couples who are silent and don't talk to each other much because they don't know what to say.
Has anyone else been in this situation where you find yourself looking despite the fact that someone is interested in you? Is this a red flag?

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Go to their place and comfort them. They will appreciate your gesture of kindness.

so happy :)

I looked at my grades and I got a 3.0 GPA. I am really proud of it. I know it's not the highest but it's the highest GPA I have received in college so far. So congratulate me. Thanks!

it feels good to be loved

I just hope I don't get my hopes up too high. I will do what I can to make a relationship with her work.

I Rebecca (girl that I asked out)

it feels good to be loved

So I told this girl whom I have feelings for how I felt about her. She started crying tears of joy after I told her how I felt. She also said to me that she wasn't ready for a relationship. She's still recovering from her last one but she said to me that it didn't mean no, she just isn't ready. I am happy that she has feelings for me too but I am sad that she lives far away and that I can't just hold her in my arms. After being rejected by other women there is someone who loves me back for once. There have been a few others who have loved me but it just didn't work out. God she's so adorable and she makes me laugh like a little kid.

I am afraid that after being smitten by Cupid's arrow that I might have my heart broken but pain is something that comes with life.

don't know what to do..

So I told her how I felt about her. She cried tears of joy and she said she "wished I was there to hug her."

Pretzelman I take back anything bad or offensive I said. You are right that sometimes you just have to go for it.

This is just one of the few times I have actually had success asking a girl out. Well.. she didn't say yes but the way she reacted gave me an indication she felt the same way about me.

don't know what to do..

You are right on one thing that I'm afraid of being hurt.

don't know what to do..

All I'm doing is asking advice and I'm sorry you people think I'm saying the same thing over and over. Yeah I can be sarcastic too but I don't appreciate pretzelman's sarcasm.

don't know what to do..

No she already had a boyfriend. I asked the girl from my class on a "date" and it was an awkward moment when she said she already had a boyfriend.

Thank you. I have a feeling in my gut I should call her and tell her how I feel. It's just not going to be easy. I feel like when I call her I'm holding back something I want to say to her but I don't because I don't want it to ruin anything.

so how do you..

This is good advice. Thank you. I'm just afraid if I make my motives clear like if I am attracted to a woman and I show it, I am just afraid of rejection. Do I show her I fancy her by saying "you look lovely today" or something of that sort?

don't know what to do..

So I met this girl online and I have feelings for her. I talk to her on the phone and online and she makes me laugh and feel happy. I am attracted to her and I feel we have things in common. I want to tell her how I feel but I'm afraid she will not feel the same about me. If I do decide to tell her I want to tell her on the phone how I feel because I know it will mean more to her. Maybe this sounds irresponsible since I haven't met her in person just talked to her online and on the phone. I'm just not sure if I should tell her on the phone or wait until I see her in person. The problem with meeting her in person is that she lives in North Carolina and I live in New York.

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so how do you..

True, I mean I may just be trying to get to know her and she may think I'm like some of the other guys trying to just get into her pants or something.

so how do you..

I notice if I ever approach a woman I am interested in it's like she reads me quite easily. How do I make my motives less obvious? By motives I mean eventually asking her out or dating her. I don't know. Is this clear or do I need to explain more? Maybe this question is totally bogus.

is it possible..

Yeah, I'm going to visit my aunt there as well.

I think...

I think I said something that hurt one of my friends (Ashley). I told her about this girl (Rebecca) I was interested in and it upset her. I had a feeling Ashley liked me and my other friend is best friends with Ashley and was hoping for us to be together. It's like I don't know if I want Ashley, I haven't known her that long. I think Ashley is cute and funny but Rebecca is more appealing to me since I am more attracted to her and feel we have more things in common. I tried to tell Ashley in the best way I could that I just am not interested in her. I told her she is a great friend and that I was flattered she is interested in me. I honestly tried to say it the best way I could since I knew how it feels to be rejected. Hopefully she understands and gets over it.

It's like sometimes I feel pressure to have a girlfriend. Like my mom's friend jokes around about putting a cute girl under the Christmas tree or something. It's just a joke but for some reason I take it to heart. I want a companion, someone to hold and caress. I don't have a lot of experience with relationships. Maybe I am just letting this take up too much of my life but I don't know how to not think about it especially when a girl flirts with me.

is it possible..

Is it possible for a long distance relationship to work? I like this girl but she lives in North Carolina and I live in New York. I want to go to North Carolina and see my aunt and visit this girl I met. Should I just scrap the whole thing and forget about it ever possibly happening?

if you could be any Looney Toon character who would you be?

Ahhhhhh what's up doc?

if you could name...

Yeha maybe I shouldn't have posted this.

if you could name...

If you named your blowup doll what would her name be?

if you could bring..

I am sorry if this is depressing to some. I figured it would. What about if you could have a few hours with them? What if they were just a specter or apparition?

if you could be any Looney Toon character who would you be?

I'd say either Porky Pig or Marvin the Martian.

if you could bring..

Yes indeed! Wise choice.

if you could bring..

If you could bring back someone you love or admire from the dead to spend a few minutes with them who would you choose? Can be a relative, someone famous, etc.

I would choose either my grandpa.

As for a famous person I would talk to Kurt Cobain.

Sorry it is a bit depressing to talk about it.

does she like me..?

Yes "chances are" the worlds going to end or she'll like me. That's why you try not to take things like life for granted though.

does she like me..?

I know, I need to be more patient. I don't want to ruinit if there's something good that could happen.

this one goes out to..

Yes I am referring to a feeling of love. I am sorry if what I post can be a bit unclear.

this one goes out to..

If you were to meet someone on a dating site that you had strong feelings for, would you go out of your way to travel to see him/her?

Personally I would as long as it felt right. That's just me though.