Ok I can rationalize with this. The first time I sent her away it was partially because I was with another woman. But at the same time any other woman I have dated that do seem to be a compatible match for me either didn't intrest me or left before there was a chance. Dating has become almost obsolete at this point I feel. Any advice on trying new approach's with new women?
So wait. Youre saying maybe it's what I need is someone like this? Im a little confused by your last statement. I know "WTF do I know" But being that i am a patient person willing to love, do i wait for her still? Should I just look at her changing of the mind as who she is and accept it and just keep trying. Or are you still suggesting that I seperate myself from her?
Thank you, sadly enough I have heard the same thing from friends and family, But hearing is from a stranger and hearing the same thing bout sums it up wish me luck.
So I have an ex-wife of whom I have a child with. 2 years ago she left me, broken hearted and upset. Time went on and eventually i came to terms with myself that she may not ave been the right one. Then after about 1 year she comes back crying and begging for me back. I politely tried to explain to her that we were young when me and her got married, and that me and her jumping back into a relationship would be to tough on me. And that me and her would need to take time to get to know each other better. So she decided to get back together with her ex boyfriend, saying that what I told her hurt her and made her feel like I didn't want her. Now 2 years after the divorse she is back at me gain. This time I gave in. I decided that maybe me and her could work. She tells me she wants to be with me, and to grow old and spend the remainder of our time together on this earth. Things were ok...... for 4 days. Now she comes to me with this "I haven't been alone scince before me and you got married. I think we shouldn't do this anymore." Now I love this girl I really do. But my heart is breaking again and i'm very confused. How could someone change teir mind so often and never pay the consequences for it? Is it healthy for me to love her? Should I try to find a way to not love her and unattach myself from her emotionally? And if so will someone offer me guidence on how I should go about that?
Well the way I look at it women are like video games. They can be really fun to play, but once you beat it, the games just no fun anymore. So my advise. Become unbeatable. And if you didn't understand that. Make him think that everyday has to be something different to keep your attention. Even though you are happy he finally got you. Make him think you haven't been caught quite yet.
Ok so I have this girl who has been a distant friend of mine for about 4 years now. And she brought up being friends with benifits. I would really want to take her up on her offer but I don't want to hurt her if she wants to move on to a relationship. I just would like it to be Friends with benifits and thats all. Any advise would help.
We all know oj did it. He really really did it. But the jury said no no no. Let em go let em go let em go. He definatly killed his mistress. No knowing whos going to be next. But at gun point in a store. The jury said "go go go."
Kelly Bundy from Married with children lol. Seriously though my elementry/middle/high school sweetheart, we were together for 10 yeas lol. Ended in shambles.
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Ok I can rationalize with this. The first time I sent her away it was partially because I was with another woman. But at the same time any other woman I have dated that do seem to be a compatible match for me either didn't intrest me or left before there was a chance. Dating has become almost obsolete at this point I feel. Any advice on trying new approach's with new women?