I like your humor harbal. I don't let stuff on the internet get to me, even if I disagree with it. I just like to offer my opinions as well. But I saw this and was thinking about you.
Definition of Facetious (adjective) : Making light of something usually regarded as serious or sacred. Rude is a synonym of facetious. Sometimes you can use "Rude" instead an adjective "Facetious".
It can be hard to interpret tone on the internet, but I didn't mean to appear rude. Guess harbal is rubbing off on me. I do value your input, just seemed a bit like you were dodging an inconvenient question. So sorry. But it sounds like the accuser was a former Czech spy, so I'm not sure what his motive was. Are you quite sure it was money?
Might be difficult if you have kids together. If your the one who dumped your mate it shouldn't be all that hard. If not just join a support group for scorned women. I don't think this is much of a problem for men.
I'm not going to cry over a dead coyote Harbal. They weren't even in this part of the country until they started building bridges over the Mississippi River and others. Are you psychiatrist by trade?
RE: Do you think you're better of alone...?
Sorry we're fresh out here.