Hi Chesney, I didn´t know you are Aspie (just a note, no syndrome, there is no genetic marks, a disorder) yeap ...I can see how online works for you but how about getting double meaning messages in a place like this? you need a lot of cognitive empathy to catch the whole thing ....or you don´t care? LOL! I´m a big fan of Hegel myself
I had a couple of them in my last political family....it was a challenge for me to show them how wrong they were with certain stuff ....I didn´t do it to prove myself I could, I did it for next generations, they are ok now but stopped talking to me, yeap ...they can´t look at my face now after all they did & said ...it´s ok, I don´t want people who always agree with me but those who doesn´t "think"/improve/ change/ get better/ take into consideration others opinions are totally useless for being on my side. to you and yours Bearwoman
I would have writen this years ago Dee....exactly!
I´m a very passionate individual in terms of personality, it´s my nature but I´m also extremelly rational (for further info I´m talking about Dabrowski´s Overexcitabilities, 5 of 5, being Intellectual the strongest).
I never let my emotions take control of my life, it´s a self impossed norm, but with age I have learnt to process information and deal with certain stuff, I do not have any problem with agree & disagree, it´s easy since we understand all of us have same rights and deserve same respect ....what it´s absoultely difficult for me are injustices, when I see damage to others, I can´t control myself, I need to do something ....and as I usually can lol! I´ve been quite busy so many times....but it´s not fair for me, I have my own life, hence I try to avoid certain places, news, etc where I know I can be provoque by evil acts...and that´s all, maybe next life I become as Super Hero but I´m not now LOL!
Yeap ...I have a lot of friends who love this pretty much ....a vote for Miwagi´s suggestion I´ll provide you the proper music if you like it LOL (Narco corridos)
Hi Incu Seinfeld, Frasier & Sheldon are writen in gold on my notebooks. I dated "George Costanza" of course!!!!! ex husband 1 pulled my legs for months every time we coincidentally met in any mutual friends meeting....years without thinking about that guy .... I´m back to books so no time for TV :( but every suggestion you made will be taken into consideration ...one day LOL!
Do it Dee, my ex father in law #1 was a wise man (I´ve mentioned this a few times here) he used to say: "If no matter what it´s gonna hurt, better outside than inside" Yomtov M. Z´L. We just need to learn how to say it ......with manners ....wait! there is a quote for that ! lol! I´m thinking!!!!!!!!! be back in minutes.....
Yeap ...a friend of mine, I introduced her to this site, they are very happy (as far as I know), she is my friend from school days....a decent person who was lucky to find a decent guy like her. I wouldn´t say it´s a norm, but if you are smart enough to sort out obstacles and find some one like you, I think this place is like any other and succees is possible. My best wishes to you and be careful who you trust
RE: Does your pasion dictate that you must be right or can you agree to disagree?
Hi Chesney, I didn´t know you are Aspie (just a note, no syndrome, there is no genetic marks, a disorder) yeap ...I can see how online works for you but how about getting double meaning messages in a place like this? you need a lot of cognitive empathy to catch the whole thing ....or you don´t care? LOL!I´m a big fan of Hegel myself