if their interested in you you will get a response,I don't put much credence into someone unless they really seem intersted.Most people come to these sites because real life dating is too much pressure for them,so they feel more secure on a computer where they can control the contact. If it's meant to happen and someone really likes you it will ,just don't press it.(and don't get discouraged)
RE: New at this.
welcome to the site.