neither....one has nothing to do with me and the other i would have made the best choice for me at the time with the information i had....no need for regret in either situation......
my relationship would be more important to me than my job....honesty and transparency are important to me...i would definitely tell my partner and let the chips fall where they may.....
RE: Terms of endearment, darling...
recently tho it seems to be my unfathomed inability to recall the words im trying to use.......