I know some may disagree but age is not a stop for making life exciting again... To do what you trully love and enjoy will benefit you greatly especially in the long run... I've seen many young people die of the stress and determination to fit into a box...sad indeed... Follow your insticts and heart, that's the best advice I can give, it worked with me... It's not always easy but it's worth it when you look back one day and see the long road you walked to be where you are today... You know what to do, I am sure... :-)
Believe it or not any age is good to start anew... I've been there myself and it was the best thing I've ever done lifewise... Complete change of education, profession, life views...anything you want... Whatever you decide I wish you the best of luck...sincerely ...
And not because I am one but I believe older mums make better parents... They have more patience and tend to treat the kids with more understanding, listen more and respect more... They balance better their time and are not that obsessed with their work...
I've never met anyone who looks like me or was I told I looked like someone, famous or not... But I've got enough physical benefits from my parents even if I don't look like any of them...
There are people who become bad parents even if they seem to have a nice personality... Some mums are reading way too many "clever" books about parenting instead of following their natural instinct and listen to what the child is trying to say (even before it starts speaking)... It's not the nine months of pregnancy that changes you, it's the thought of what is after that...
Imagine Angela Merkel didn't invite million of immigrants into her country and now she wants everyone to be responsible for her decision... If Turkey opens it's borders then you will see that the real problem is... True colours? How many immigrants did you host in your home, how many you fed and dressed?! Talking doesn't make you a good person...and you don't know what others do while you use forums to gain your "wings"...
Popularity has no value... One doesn't need to do something useful to become popular... today... Unfortunately... The talentless you are the better chances you have to win the contest...
Hmmmm... I'm sure the info will suffer some dramatic change if the source is coming from the other side of the fence... But as a whole I disagree with the amount of importance the West or shall we say America puts on itself...meaning being the "good cop"...
The place for relocating isn't to be taken with no consideration... A good friend of mine followed her fiance to Norway because he loved it there (he's German)... They got involved financially with business that tied them to the place...(very picturesque but remote area) She is slowly but steadily crumbling down and falling into a depression because of the climate and lack of social life... It starts affecting their relationship...
Communication and patience are the other very, very important ingredients... But you are right, meet as soon as possible, that's the only way... If one fears the distance, they should make that clear from the start... Before someone gets hurt... Hope you find that special person Tom
RE: To start over, at middle age.
I know some may disagree but age is not a stop for making life exciting again...To do what you trully love and enjoy will benefit you greatly especially in the long run...
I've seen many young people die of the stress and determination to fit into a box...sad indeed...
Follow your insticts and heart, that's the best advice I can give, it worked with me...
It's not always easy but it's worth it when you look back one day and see the long road you walked to be where you are today...
You know what to do, I am sure... :-)