People tend to see the cause of any problem they experience as external...but is it, really?! We need to be more honest with ourselves, that will save us a lot...mentally and emotionally...
If you communicate with the wrong people it won't get you anywhere... You need something in common to be able to keep the conversation going and many don't realise it...and try to push it forward then get frustrated and feel offended because of you lack of interest... It's not a rocket science...
Well, the people who rocked the forums and made everyone involved in a heated discussions (with anger or passion) were reported and banned by people who are still here... You do the maths...
We lie all the time... And most of the time unconsciously... Is there a big truth or small truth? Your truth or my truth? Is not telling the truth a lie too?!
But, Lee, why would you prefer a "pampered" profile that will more likely disappoint you the farther the communication goes...!? Two sentences can be more than enough to spark an interest... A photo showing you at your average is better than a photo showing your artificial best... If you don't like what you see, just move on... Its not your thing...
There are always two sides of the story... Often people forget that they are responsible for their own life even or especially when they are in a relationship... Walking away from an abusive, unhappy, unfulfilling relationship is up to you and nobody else... Many say finances were an issue, kids were an issue... The devil you know seems a better option when you are afraid of taking charge for your own life...and there's nobody else to be blamed... I did choose to walk away with a little kid and zero finances...and total lack of family support... Looking back I can not even realise how hard it must have been, I only see where I am now...and that's all that matters...because I walked that path and rebuilt my life all by myself...
I work with lasers, Radio frequent, Bio electromagnetic and Ultrasonic devices...so, you can imagine what could happen if I can affect their work... I would be probably flattering myself if I say I can control my frequency...but who knows...I may as well do that...
No, I wouldn't and I don't need to explain why...right?! It's the stuckness in between that's most disturbing here, they usually end up neither of what they want and don't want to be...
RE: Where has all the romance gone
People tend to see the cause of any problem they experience as external...but is it, really?!We need to be more honest with ourselves, that will save us a lot...mentally and emotionally...