Bad experience is not something that should be shared to help yourself get over it... It might make you feel better because of the sympathy you receive from others but it doesn't help you see where did you go wrong... The thinking and healing is a lonely process, you stand up against yourself...
We do experience heartbreaks mostly because we have the wrong idea of what is good for us, what we need or we turn into someone else to fit in a relationship... I've never dated two men who are similar to each other... And to be honest the guy who feels like my other half is someone I wouldn't even consider giving a chance... The impossible exist only in your mind...
RE: Do you smoke..?
Long term ex smoker here...I just can not believe I ever smoked...