Well, Ali, it's easy to be willing to give yourself to somebody... You just need to encounter the one that really wants you... And that's not an easy thing...
I think it's possible but not if the love is unrequited... If someone loves you they will see your subservience as vulnerability... And as we know vulnerability is quite hard to show, especially in love...
May be... Not all men want to see vulnerability in a form of helplessness ... The damsel in distress isn't always a charming lady with good intentions...
Hmmm... I am trying to build my life around some kind of convenience I guess... The less dependence the better... I don't want to be skilled in male jobs, but I don't want to be vulnerable as well... Not because of pride but because when single you have to get up and try do it before look for help... Or at least that's what I know... Cutting corners and finding ways...learning new tricks...anything is welcome...when it saves my sanity...
Parading with their cash makes men a good target it's what they'll attract...so no complaints are accepted here... Yes, they want to be evaluated as good providers but that's not the way...
Some men feel the need to parade importance, being with cash or attitude...may be to compensate other missing parts...
RE: Share What You Are Listening To -- Part 99