Designing your life could be a double edged knife... As you may not be happy after achieving all you wanted, because it wasn't your thing after all... The world is full with miserable people who state they got what they wanted... Allow a little work done by the Fate and you may be pleasantly surprised ...
Working around what's best is a matter of understanding between the two in a couple... We can share responsibility and tasks...and that's what's important... It's not a competition, it's a team work... I can give more of this but you can give more of that...balance...
I am not into the dating game, but I happen to speak to men now and then... The ideal is if she has a good job and is a good housewife too... And that's easily achieved, a question of organisation and priorities...
It is important...It seems to be one of the first questions men ask you... It's good to have a job, even better if it's a good job... But at the end of the day very few men are happy and proud to have a woman whose job is much better than theirs...
Every road sweeper wants to be a boss, but none of them would do what is required to achieve that... Manager is quite overstated position in the West, that's what I know...
Nobody is holding you at a gun point, that's the truth... If you want all to be easy and nobody to tell you what to do...well... Yes, people don't like their bosses even if the bosses are worth to be respected...and it often is down to envy... People don't like to be told...they'd rather spit at someone who is better instead of working on improving themselves...
I have no boss, but I would give an example with my trainer in gymnastics...she was able to make us better than we would ever believe we could be... She made us work hard and it wasn't very easy or pleasant but it was paying off at the end, standing there, before the crowd with a medal on your neck... Did we hate her, definitely not... If your boss wants you to grow and be better in what you do, they deserve your respect, they see a potential in you...if they didn't, you would be jobless...
To dislike or hate someone who is trying to make something better out of you is mildly said mindless, it's speaks about you and in not a very flattering way too...
What if you are wrong...and you don't deserve respect... Disagreeing and not letting being influenced by others might be a mistake... What if they want you to be the better version of yourself but you stubbornly refuse... Right and wrong for you may have a different meaning from what is right and wrong in general... You may like what you are but actually be someone who hasn't earned any respect...
I haven't watched any of the film's mentioned above... My life is what happens before my eyes, I refuse to waste time trying to dissect something that's hypothetical... The less attention you pay to a possibility the less possible it becomes...
You can never know everything about someone, even your closest ones... What you think for a fact could be totally your own creation... Sometimes the person you wake up to is one you least know...
It's his ability to earn money that counts, not how much he has in the bank... Money come to the picture sooner or later... Having a partner in any sense of the word is better than being with someone who needs dragging along...all the time... If I know you can do it I'll be there for you in hard times and help you... unconditionally...
It's up to you if you want to see the critisms as a viscous lie, which only purpose is to harm you... Flattering could be much more harmful but it's much preferred because it's ego stroking...
It's about how you say it that makes the great difference... The way you serve your criticism is essential to how it's gonna be accepted or not... Every critisms holds a seed of truth in it, there's always something that triggers the desire of another person to hurt your ego...
Very few people accept constructive criticism, or criticism of any kind... The truth it that to accept it you need to be realising the potential of it and admit your own mistake or inability to see your faults... And what's even harder is to really follow it and do something about it... Sometimes saying "You are right" to your critic could bring a huge, positive change to your life...
RE: Say Anything
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