If you find out he's with someone else get a female friend to call his house and leave an answer phone message asking that he's phones the clinic ASAP as they need to talk with him urgently.
Cheers mate, it was 4 years ago but it still cuts deep.. Hardest thing I ever did was to hold him in the Chapel of rest, but it was the best thing I've done as I got to say hello to him.
RE: revenge is sweet
Jog on, I'm a real I was sent by god to change the life of one lucky lady