No you don't fall in love with someone until you meet them because you can't know them from email alone. JMO and I have met quite a few peeps in the last several years. Doesn't work unless it rocks in person.
You have the answer in your own thread. He's married that is the key move on now and find someone who isn't. Nothing wrong with caring for him but better not to act on it. Could cause you more pain than you have already had don't you think and his wife too, and the fact that he is wooing you in while having a wife is not cool he isn't considering your feelings and what you have gone through or he would leave you be also.
I have been guilty of it too but am tired of fast food nation where everything is supposed to be instant and nothing lasts longer than a minute including interactions with most people.
I am sorry Thomas but ain't it the truth. Hugs to you darlin if you have been hurt. Too many green pastures for many miles around people don't like one pasture they jump from pasture to pasture.
Hey people be nice to her. She is asking a valid question. Do you ever stay friends afterwards with those you meet? Ask them what does it hurt and relax let it develop if you aren't comfortable and they aren't it's not good for either person darlin.
In love is infatuation from my stand point and loving can be at the point where they don't or maybe had those intense short lived (its about 2 years at the most) feelings of euphoria. In love can turn into something deeper unfortunately a lot of us are infatuation junkies and when that feeling departs we look for someone else or don't see that the love we have for the person in front of us has more depth. Lots of it has to do with all the intensity and crap we have been fed in books and movies. Just my opinion. I ended my marriage because I thought I wasn't in love anymore when if I had woke up and been smarter would have realized that it could have been something better than going gaga over someone's physical appearance or the idea that I needed them to complete me. Just my opinion.
You bet that is why I got divorced to lose my house, my car most of my possessions my best friend for many years so that I could now live in semi poverty. You betcha it the way to go.
Good points you also don't know if your bosses are losing money and just trying to keep afloat if that's the case it's a different scenario than just pocketing someones wages out of greed. Along with those who are capitalizing on the opportunity to unload lots of workers especially those they might have to pay out health benefits on are those who are barely holding onto the business. I should have asked more questions before jumping to conclusions myself.
Some people will never get it. The almighty dollar or whatever currency is it and the workers are assests or liabilities depending on how business is going. So look out for yourself.
Look for something else but I agree with Robbie people are going to take advantage of their workers in these times they know that all over the globe people are fearful of losing their jobs. Hopefully Karma will come back and bite them in the hiney.
It's got to be the US's fault isn't it always. We are the mastermind of all evil and have hatched all types of conspiracies including 9/11. NOT! This is a dating site not a place to bash Americans. May I ask do you really live here? I have seen several threads from you where you are not happy with America and while we are not perfect we are pretty awesome in a lot of ways.
Good thread JVASKI. I am looking for friendship at this time and have found some on these forums but if I found a friend out here offline that developed over time into love that would be wonderful whether I met that person on here another site or wherever.
I always tell a friend. I always go somewhere public. It is very risky business, we have to be conscientious! Also, always make sure your cell is charged!!
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RE: Can a person truly, spiritually fall in love by email?
No you don't fall in love with someone until you meet them because you can't know them from email alone. JMO and I have met quite a few peeps in the last several years. Doesn't work unless it rocks in person.