Look Mr Nice guy ... good to hear you changed your profile ... You are right you are not my type ... I already have met someone here anyway so that doesn't come into it ... it's actually no skin off my nose is you get lucky or not ... the reason I responded to your poste is because it sounded soooooooooooo rude even to me who is NOT looking!!!
Having MSN or not is NO guaranty that someone is nice ...
Trouble is at the mo we don't wear clothes at home coz it's sooooooooooooooooooooo hot!!!!! Good for the environment too, saves on washing!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Sooooooooooooooo have to remember the second Skype becomes active I'm on cam!!!!
When Gongman and me got together we broke all the rules of common sense!!!
We had only spent 10 days together in between communicating by mail/phone ...
Within just over a couple of months, I came to visit with just a couple of cases ...
I'm still here six months later ...
Thing is though, he had to move shortly before I arrived and was living in non-permanent accommodation ... got the keys to the new (rented) place 2 days after I arrived ... So we kindda moved in together ... To a new space for both os us ...
I have to say one thing ... We had plenty of adjustments to make because we are still getting to know one another ... We have recently discovered the most important thing (which we kindda knew but had not clocked on for ourselves): it is up to each one of us individually to "work on ourself" for our own growth, and up to each of us to allow space for the other to be able to do that. It's beautiful!!!
I have heard but not tried it ... that best way to get guys to "aim" into the toilet bowl is to buy one that has some sort of SMALL design like the pic of a fly AT THE BOTTOM of the bowl!!! Boys will be boys ... soooooooooooooooo they will ALWAYS try to "get it" even more so when they've have a few beers!!!!! Now don't be surprised if you see a chart appear on the bathroom wall were they keep "the score"
... trouble with attracting serial mono plural mind gamists, ... when I see for real, "it don't do" what it says on the box ... after many years spent, seeing how the rules of this game work and seeing whatever move equals to a check mate, divorce is my last move when I re-write the "instructions/rules" ...
I have now re-written a "be real" set of "gidelines" for my life ... marriage/divorce ... be who I wanna be ... be where I wanna be ... do what I wanna do ... be with who I wanna be ... Only games I can be coaxed into playing now are scrabble or ping-gong
PS: is a serial monogamist someone who serially plays with/by themselves ?
Relocating to Spain (my country of origin) was part of my gran plan for my future ... Happened to bump into someone on here who was located only 3/4 hours drive from where I was intending to relocate!!!!
For same reason as you Sxc, I would not want to move continents permanently ... my family, kids and grandkids are dear to me ... Fortunately for me Spain/France/UK (where we are all dotted about) is probably easier to travel in between than some parts of Oz
When the body creates phantom symtoms to alert you that something is wrong in your everyday life, it's psycho-somatic and when investigated docs find nothing wrong... But when your body creates real disease in your body because there is such dis-ease in your life ... that's scary!!! My sub-conscious must have been prodding me for a while and as I was ignoring it (anti-depressants can repress anything!!!!!) it must have moved to levels 2!!! Real disease!!!
You know, it did not feel like sacrifice at all. It felt like choices I was making for myself and it felt and tasted like FREEDOM!!!! Still does!!!
Sounds to me like that's what he IS like for everything ...
All the time you're saying blue ... he says "no! ... red"
By the time you agree to red he goes "what? red? Nah!! I need yellow! Whatever made you think I wanted red? What I need is a woman who agrees with yellow!!! " NOW he is making it YOUR fault that you don't know/understand/agree with yellow!!!
It's called mind games ... and so far he has been casting his bait!!! If you bite you will be for ever confused, because he will be continuously "playing the game". A confused woman is a lot easier to controle.
If I had agreed to meet a guy in a non-formal place, say for lunch, and he had turned up wearing a suit and tie ... I would not have been impressed!!! Unless he was meeting me straight from work and that is what he wore at work, but I would still be wondering WHY he didn't take his tie off and undo a couple of shirt buttons!!!!
I'd be wondering what he's trying to hide under his overly tidy (for the occasion) appearance ...
I have a preference for chilled people who don't give a f*ck about convention!!!
RE: No interest
Look Mr Nice guy ... good to hear you changed your profile ...You are right you are not my type ... I already have met someone here anyway so that doesn't come into it ... it's actually no skin off my nose is you get lucky or not ... the reason I responded to your poste is because it sounded soooooooooooo rude even to me who is NOT looking!!!
Having MSN or not is NO guaranty that someone is nice ...
Good luck anyway!