i agree wholeheartedly Clo with you and S,im not here for the dating aspect now,i have always enjoyed the craic and banter on the forums but like yourself am put off taking part anymore because of all the arguements,name calling,insults..
Im beginning to wonder have some of the posters in this thread that think its alright to swan off on holidays for 10 days and leave 12 year olds alone, kids of their own
Unless they actually asked you to move into the house with the kids for the 10 days and care for and look after their kids they ARE being neglectful and BREAKING THE LAW..
Aww thats nice..when i had Santy (up till 3 years ago)we opened our presents from each other and friends on xmas eve so there was no mix up on xmas morning as to what santy brought and who got what from who
Now its all xmas morning.. No santy but it still costs me as much as when there was Honestly,my edest is 25 and she still expects(and gets)same as my youngest(14)
There are two particular young guys here on the forums that act as if they OWN CS!! They are forever "jumping down peoples throats",disagreeing,being rude,calling names etc.. in the IGNORE thread they both had the cheek to agree that a certain person should be ignored..from what i can see it is THEMSELVES that are guilty of bad behaviour. In Sharina's thread where she had a mishap with paint at mc Donalds they made fun of her distress and plea for advice and help.. They are very arguementative in all threads which i am certain sure put a lot of people off posting in the forums...it certainly puts me off,i dont join in as much as i used to and i notice a lot of the one time regular posters dont join in either.
I would have to be VERY GOOD FRIENDS with the "injured party" before i would get involved in their business/relationship..
While you got a shock to see her on that site it really is not YOUR business(and i mean that in a nice way)
Nobody knows what goes on behind closed doors,thats is in no way saying what she is doing is right,its not,but who knows if he's not at the same thing? Thats why i say no one knows what goes on behind closed doors.
RE: do the forums
i agree wholeheartedly Clo with you and S,im not here for the dating aspect now,i have always enjoyed the craic and banter on the forums but like yourself am put off taking part anymore because of all the arguements,name calling,insults..