I tried to deal with the cheating. It's an automatic exit, these days.
I'm changing by the day. I would like to deal with people again. I'd like a relationship. Marriage is out. I'm set in some ways, willing to change in others.
I need some time to learn how to associate with others. Once I do that, I'm willing to give of myself, within reason.
When I say I'm 5'5", I mean it. My height and weight are true. Don't tell me you're 5'7" when you're 5'3 and dumpy. 5' 3" is fine, if you weigh 125 lbs and know I'm taller. I'm 5'5" to 5'6" and weigh 125 lbs. Don't lie about your height. I will know, immediately.
I'm afraid it's my fault. I was horrified to realize that a) I was not remembered and my joke seemed serious. b) she was not available on Netlog, either.
I have looked for her on both sites, to send a direct apology, to no avail.
I feel horrible...*note to self, over-the-top humour only plays with personal friends, other people take it seriously.
While I'm at it, I owe Vonney an apology for a response on Ireland. My sarcasm doesn't transfer without the appropriate facial features, etc.
I say outrageous things and people are shocked, only to realize, I mean to be outrageous, to poke fun at the subject, or whatever. Contrary to what I say, I'm very different in feeling.
If I could have a "do over", my comments would be a good start. I am more sorry than ever, if I offended, or hurt anyone. It was never my intention, to be mean.
I hope Farley reads this, forgives me for bad taste, and comes back.
I've been called that, I got over the offense and dated the young ones. Now, I've graduated to cougar. What's the equivalent for a guy in his forties, with 20 somethings hitting on him?
I pretty much tell the young ones to push off. I give leeway, after 35. I'm young at heart, active and find younger men attractive. Anything below 35 is a P.I.T.A. and not to be considered.
HUH???!!! I think Farley might be a friend from my netlog account, but I haven't asked her. I've only been here for a few days. I started to ask her if I know her by another name, but I haven't, just yet.
Farley doesn't even flirt, really.
What the Hell are you talking about? I'm seriously confused.
Are looks everything? What if he can't put together a sentence? What's a girl to do, look at him during dinner and wish she had someone who could have a conversation? What if he's good to look at, and dumb as a rock? What's the point?
Worse, what if he thinks his looks should mean that women should just leap at him and he doesn't have to do anything? Yeah thanks, I'll pass.
Are you asking for yourself? Do you think you're handsome, deserving, entitled and being ignored? Looks are subjective.
I've been speechless, tongue-tied and stupid over guys other people have harassed for being too short and thin. I thought they were gorgeous, smart, witty, talented and charming. I never cared for the chiseled, "good-looking", brawny guys. Boring as Hell, arrogant, stupid and a waste of my time. That's been my personal experience, OMMV.
I think a handsome man can find a date, if he has the courage to ask. After that, it's about personality.
It's a been a while since I've been on a dating site. I prefer to get to know some people first, before I tackle chat. Best way to do that is read messages on the forums, find the fun people and join in.
Chat rooms could be fun, 5-10 years ago. I have a slow connection, so my responses lose relevancy. Quoting from the forum and e-mail is much better, IMHO. Besides, It's much easier to ignore people one doesn't like on the forums.
I also broke a toilet. Mine was due to not having soap in the shower. I was getting ready for bed, saw I had no soap and thought I'd be slick and reach across the toilet for the soap at the sink.
My ballet skills are inversely proportionate to the amount of alcohol consumed and hair conditioner on the shower floor.
I slipped, fell out of the shower, grabbed the curtain and hit the tank hard. The back corner of the tank broke, the curtain and rod all came out of the wall and water went all over the floor. The exact condition I was attempting to avoid.
I had to report it to the manager of my apt. for repairs. That wasn't so embarrassing.
When my ex was released from the Navy, all of his friends decided to party until dawn the next day, as a send off. The group drank at the beach all day, partied on the roof of our favorite barn, picked up more people along the way to hit a going away party at a friend's complex.
After many Tequila shots later, we threw the pool furniture in the water, formed a circle and proceeded to play "Truth or Dare". Much streaking, nudity and mayhem was involved. The police showed up, made us put on our clothes, clean up and go home. It seems that I found it necessary to wave goodnight to all the officers by using my bathing suit as a flag and hanging bare-breasted out the window. I think we all avoided jail that night because there were too many to arrest.
I have other Tequila stories where I danced on bars, tables and tossed undergarments. One blues bar in Texas has a sizable collection on the fans and rafters. Nice to know I'm not the only one.
This is not my first time to the rodeo. I got thrown from the horse and kicked. Since I've isolated myself out in the country for a number of years, my social skills have atrophied.
I'm taking some time to look around, chat with some folks and get comfortable with the idea of dating. Having dated people I've met on the internet before, it's a good way to get comfortable meeting new people.
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RE: Is it me or are these topics getting boring?
I tried for music. No go.