"If dating styles have changed so much with more aggressive cougars out their, why don’t they just ask for my phone number in the pool or club like in the song?"
That is a thing of the past.
Now they must read your social media posts, see who you are friends with, pictures you post, etc, etc....
I wish some Men would LISTEN and confirm what the woman is saying.
The hired help in our community would say hello to me. I would be polite and responded in kind. One day he talked to me and then I knew that he is married, but his wife lives in another country. He told me how beautiful I am and I told him thank, but I respect all marriages. He then began to be at the gym the same time as me, or walking the trails the same time as me. He even tried to kiss me.
I got so mad and told him about covid. He said covid is gone because he got two shots. I told him never to speak to me again and I could report him to management.
I haven't seen him since. He got my message LOUD and CLEAR.
NOT BECAUSE A WOMAN SMILE OR TALK TO A MAN, IT MEANS SHE WANTS TO DATE HIM.
RE: did you get the money...?
No. where did you send it?