Yeah, I'm fine. Just need a good laugh every now & again. We got teased with warm beautiful weather last week. Now this week, it's either been rainy or cold.
But I figure in a couple of months, we'll be complaining about the heat!
I've been in kind of a slump lately, & do NOT want to have a pity party! I'm trying to keep upbeat. Can you help me? What are some funny things that have helped you stay cheery? Are there any funny moments you think back on & start bursting out laughing at remembering?? Please do tell! No, I'm not on the verge of tears... just ho-hum.
I can't speak for others, but for me, it would have a lot to do with having children & what stages we're each at in our lives. I've had my child & she has hers. I'm not looking to 'give someone else children'... been there, done that. And usually, when dating a younger man (I'm talking quite a bit younger, not just a few years) it's hard to talk about past experiences without seeing the age difference. I'm trying to figure out how to explain that better, but am having a hard time putting it into words.
For me, that's easy. I love passion & romance. I'm in it for all of everything, not a little of something. While it might be short-lived, I would make sure it would be wonderful! The memories are what keeps us going, so often.
Looking back, I can't honestly say that I really was 'in love' with my ex. I was young & naive. I guess I wanted to change/cure him. Of course, I've learned over the years that this is exactly the WRONG reason to be with someone. Now I try to take them at face value. If I don't think they'll fit what I want & am looking for... what I would want for me for my lifetime, I just move on. No need in delaying the inevitible.
I constantly do. But what baffles me more is the ones who write telling me how much they enjoyed reading my profile & what I had to say in it. What I said in my profile is this... "Im just here for the forums. But good luck in your search for true love."
That's a tough one to answer with just yes or no. Of course, we like to look at them! We're not blind, after all! But do we look at a long-term thing with them? Well... that would all depend on the maturity, age difference, & intentions of the younger man.
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FOUR cups??? I'd be looking like I'm getting jolted from an electric socket if I had that many!! 
RE: It's Friday Coffee Time :-)
Yeah, I'm fine. Just need a good laugh every now & again. We got teased with warm beautiful weather last week. Now this week, it's either been rainy or cold.But I figure in a couple of months, we'll be complaining about the heat!