I guess that's where the word "rebounder" comes from. I, for one, have been a rebounder way too often. And it hurts. I wouldn't want to do it to anyone else. But I do have to say that's how I ended up with my ex-husband. NOT a good situation...
For me, it's easier now. When I was in my 20's & 30's, I was a single mom. Men shyed away from dating me because I came as a 'package'. Now that my daughter's grown, I find that I get asked out more. Unfortunately, they've just never worked out. But there is ALWAYS hope.
Have you ever found yourself in this situation? You can't be with someone you truly want, for whatever reason. So you start up with someone who is interested in you. How did it end up? Did you fall for that person then? Was it a messy break-up? Just curious.
No way!! We're only just getting noticed!! I've had men, from in their 20's to in their 60's approaching me. Remember the saying, "You're not getting older, you're getting better"? That's how I feel. I now have the freedom to do what I want! That's appealing to many men. And I find I'm less 'inhibited' than I used to be. If I think something, I feel more free to say it & not care as much about the outcome or consequences.
I listen to a few different kinds, depending on my mood. I usually listen to the most current music. But I love motown, classical, and many of the others you have mentioned there. So I can't really pick one.
I agree. And I agree with Dru that first, you have to be happy with yourself & your surrounding situations. Without inner peace & happiness, there can never be outer peace & happiness. I always say that how you feel on the inside reflects on the outside & draws people to you. If you're not happy with yourself, how can you possibly be happy with someone else?
Exactly. We have a quarry near my house, & I've heard that there were also shafts dug underground here, as well. When I bought my house last year, I was kind of scared to go down in the basement... which is where my washer & dryer are. I don't give it as much thought now. I figure the house was built in 1970 & hasn't gone anywhere yet...
My town is built on limestone, which is not a very strong stone at all. We get sinkholes all the time. Basements have been known to just disappear. Holes open up in the streets all the time. In fact, we even have to get 'sinkhole insurance' & one of the local taverns is called "The Sinkhole Saloon"!
I don't put much heed into it, myself. I mean, I think about it, but wouldn't base a future with someone I really liked on it, if it was said that our signs weren't compatible. I'm a libra & am supposed to be compatible with other libras & aquarians. That would be a good thing, since my daughter is an aquarius & we get along very well!
But I think that's because we've always had each other... not because of our zodiac signs.
How many of you actually seriously consider a person's zodiac sign when viewing his/her profile? Does it matter to you? Do you believe in that being a contributing factor as to whether or not you would be compatible?
Actually, it was the worst date of my life! I used my friends' texts & phone calls as an excuse, saying my daughter was having an emergency & I had to leave right away. Never heard from him again!!! I call it the date from HELL!
I've spoken to a few CSers & had the pleasure of meeting 2 in person. Names to voices... not too bad! What's weird to me is that I've been on other forums & have only made maybe 1 or 2 friends whom I've spoken over the phone with on those. On this one, I spoke to many & even gotten to travel with one twice... the second time, having gone to visit ANOTHER CSer. And we all get along fabulously!!
What have you accomplished? What are you grateful for? What have you given up? Where have you come? Are you happy with the outcome? What would you change?
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