Xtabentun Forum Posts (1,722)

RE: whining, boo hoo, when will it end...

That's my favorite book!


"Grown-ups never understand anything by themselves"

RE: As if my day wasn't bad enough...

Hmmm...friend, huh? And she's giving you a warning???



Next time tell her to send her colleagues, at least you might end up with a nice cop .....he might even write down your home address

Glad you're safe!

RE: As if my day wasn't bad enough...

Owen, I would run! And hide!

What if she did want your phone number?

RE: Be happy for me....

yes or no answers: 3 in 1:
are you the man Spicey started to talk to and while ago and feels attracted to?

RE: Be happy for me....

Holly smolly, moon sign??? I have no idea!

That Libra I believe keeps me off the walls, otherwise...

But I remember I had another ascendent quoted ...I'd better email you!

RE: Be happy for me....

Aries with ascendent in Libra I think...

RE: whining, boo hoo, when will it end...

You said it best! You love the memories of loving him!
Like all things in life, it's important to give them a shape, a beginning and an end! He never said good bye...you never got to look at him, knowing it's for the last time.....it happens, but you can get over that!
Prepare yourself to end him from your heart...and you will know when you are ready!
Be ready to just say " you don't mean anything to me anymore" and the memory of him won't touch you!
He can no longer touch you snuggs!
You are the master of your life and nobody else can influence that unless you let them!

Kick his butt and celebrate yourself!

RE: Be happy for me....

what about my signs of instant harmony?

RE: Be happy for me....

Phewwww! That's a relief! I was ready to attack

RE: Be happy for me....

Investigation ready!!!
Black man!!!

RE: Be happy for me....

You're talking about me????

RE: whining, boo hoo, when will it end...

Sounds harsh... I know it's hard to let go when you didn't have a closure!
I think when you're deeply involved, you really need to have the ending well defined, to be able to let it go, otherwise it's a long struggle with yourself.

I can relate to your case in a way ( many years ago,he ended a relationship and my heart was broken in so many pieces, I never thought I could mend it). I came out of it eventually but every once in a while I would go back to the memories and grief about him. Every once in a while I would reach out to him , although I knew what we had was gone. But I just couldn't break the connecting thread.
Until I decided it's time to move on and let him stay in the past, locked forever....it happened to visit his city, I drove on his street and , there and then, decided that I'll let him go and move along with my life....and that was my closure!

It's not always happening as quick as you want it, rather it happens when you're ready, but you will get over him!

It doesn't matter how it sounds to others, what really matters is how you feel and how you deal with it! And the fact that you know you need to break away, means you will do it! Whenever you're ready!

RE: Be happy for me....

C'mon Spicey... who is he?

RE: What attracts you??

Most of the times is the pictures that catches my attention , may it be the smile, the sparkle in the eyes, the pose...
If I happen to read something intersting in the forums, that's a starter too.
For me it's usually the " I don't know what" that gets me to the first step...later on, chemistry plays a big part and all the traits and values of the person...

RE: Be happy for me....

Congratulations!!!

RE: What is the best time to say "I love u"?

I heard the phone but I was doing laundry!
Can you call again?

RE: The most wonderful gypsy on CS

More of the gypsy spirit

RE: The most wonderful gypsy on CS

He's amazing!
He also wrote music for Emir Kusturica's movie "Time of the Gypsies"

RE: Give someone a compliment

The best things is to be mentally prepared to start the change.

I stopped without any help, just because I was planning and getting ready for the moment to stop.
One week in my cigar "soberness" I burned my car engine and first thing I did: I asked for a cigarette.

Couple of weeks later I quit again, this time with Champix( after only 2 weeks of pills). Now I can't even stand the smell.

RE: Know how to prevent sagging?

Oh, that makes sense

RE: Know how to prevent sagging?

Ohhhh, poor lil' inocent Wixom

RE: Know how to prevent sagging?

Next.....?
Hmmmm..... maybe you should revise your techniques Mr.

RE: Know how to prevent sagging?

Ohhhh, how touched by your generosity!!!!! So willing to sacrifice for the benefit of others
I am good, coming out of the winter, slowly, like the canadian bears

RE: Know how to prevent sagging?

( It is the ironing effect, of course)

RE: Know how to prevent sagging?

ONLY....and I mean only......with a solid weight on top!

Otherwise, no chance!!!

RE: Know how to prevent sagging?

Standing on your head I find it best antigravity measure

RE: Know how to prevent sagging?

I cannot believe you forgot the duct tape!!!!

Of all things, how could you forget that?

RE: CS friends...

kiddo,,,,what you need is love! Trucks....Zee can lend you his!

RE: CS friends...

Hahaha, you have to love the east european practicality

RE: CS friends...

touching....my mother told me not to pick noses in public