MasqueraderMasquerader Forum Posts (5)

RE: Inappropriate conduct or not?

How long do you think this website would last if everyone here had to be screened vetted and approved by some clearinghouse panel before signing up?
Nobody would want to do that considering the quality of people here.

RE: The Gift Or Power Of Charisma

I was referring to Aries comment mostly of his perception of charisma. Daniela you have a style and charisma that few can measure up to especially me!!

RE: Faceless CS members

Face or faceless how do we honestly connect with people but through the mind and heart. Does the human spirit have a face? Does the soul and heart have a face? Does personality have a face?
We measure people physically and how they take care of themselves. We can look upon their features to measure how pretty or handsome people are. We measure through our physical eyes upon first contact. We also have our own perception and idea of beauty. However, there is a beauty that many fail to see or look for. Once we take the time to learn beyond a pretty face we create an idea and image of that person. Its followed by understanding the personality of that person. The question we must ask is which is greater? Creating an idea of our ideal friend or lover or accepting them as they are with all their flaws? The difference is idols can be formed so easily and create false ideas about our love interest. Making idols of people and creating a false I age and false hope in them is our human undoing. They will let you down from time to time. When we see faceless profiles here we can only go upon what they say of themselves. Yet, we do that even with a pic.
Until we see the heart of intent and motive of people only then can we learn if there is a true connection.
Two faceless profiles can connect through an image they created of themselves. What did they fall in love to? Their face or their personality? If anyone remembers the movie the Truth of cats and dogs starring Sandra Bullock as she was a radio talkshow hostess. She met up with a guy who talked about his dog and the way he talked he sounded appealing to her. When they met it was love. Not at face value but they connected emotionally over the radio.
This site and everyone who plays here and the many other dating sites available we are so superficial in looking how pretty or handsome someone should be. Not everyone or everything we see is not always the truth until learned.
Everyone complains of fake profiles fake pics fake everything. When everyone takes their mask off we then see the truth that we are not all what we want everyone to believe.
Yet,by accepting and loving one another as people really are do we learn love.

RE: Do we want to Live Forever?

Let's consider the current quality of our lives as it is. Are we happy and content mentally emotionally physically spiritually? If so, maybe it might be worth living. Yet, not all the pills and psychology and bible verses will fix or give the very thing most people are probably lacking which is love in their heart.
The question in looking at the current chaos in the world the social injustices and the many things we see in the news everyday if there was a pill to cure that then people in general may be cured.
Preaching of doomsday stuff is rather counterproductive. We all have a choice to see differently. I would rather see myself and my brothers and sisters who live on this planet happy and healthy and doing what they love and living to their highest level of being. Who are my brothers and sisters? They are the stranger walking by in the marketplaces and the streets and even those loitering around here on this site. They are the people we work with and play with.
Heal thyself first in the mind then maybe there will be less pills to mask the symptoms.

RE: Social media and employers

All who can justify employers to dig up dirt on employees about their viewpoints etc. What about the employees finding dirt on the employers and hiring managers? What's good for the goose should be good for the gander.
Don't assume that every corporate executive is on the level. Or every hiring manager is pristine. I feel potential employees should have equal rights to check on potential employers just like they do on employees.
In a world of do as I say not as I do, is it fair and just to say you had a bad moment with a previous job that it should be held against you accordingly?

What people even say here on this site, imagine what you thought was trivial but, a potential employer read your trivial blog and decided you are not the kind of a**hole they want in their company because you are not aligned with their policies and social political views.

Of course, they may never tell that but, I would not doubt that those who write up stuff here on the political blogs and bad mouthing the President or some other high profile leader or if you sound like a misogynous and the hiring manager is a woman God help the fool. If potential employers found the crap people say, it could come back to haunt them when they need a job and they find they are black balled by all companies.

Now granted a lot has to do with the kind of job you are applying for. If you were applying for an NSA or FBI job or Attorney General then yes you should be investigated a bit before taking on such a high profile job.
Yet, for a job for lousy $9.00 an hr at a warehouse throwing boxes of crap around which requires no fancy education or skill, is a security clearance really all that necessary?
Is a person's credit that important to work on an assembly line? If you were working on a cash register maybe, because you are responsible for other people's money. The temptation to steal is too great knowing the cost of living is too much these days.
Overall, if employers love to scrutinize their potential employees like they are common criminals before proven innocent should we not do the same for elected officials?

Can a potential employee offer a psychological test to the managers they are going to work for as they make them do? It sure would be nice to know your supervisor's background ahead of time to warrant whether you want to work with him or her.
Often times you find out about how your supervisors are after the fact.
Whatever happened to the days that if you are walking breathing your hired!!! Those days are gone I guess.
Now people have to prove they are worthy to work. Much like the same in finding a girlfriend on this site. Imagine how many people would say the Hell with this site if they had to go through a psychological profile test to be worthy to be here?
Once they found out how many nutjobs are here , the population of ideal social mates on this site would dwindle down to about maybe 100 people that may fit the criteria to be dating one another.

Its all about meeting a criteria with jobs and making friends getting credit and being allowed to be human.
If you don't meet the criteria you don't get the job, nor the girl, nor the credit, nothing!!
Now imagine if the God people dance to felt the same way if you don't meet the criteria to live in paradise whatever that may entail, you go elsewhere. You don't get the 72 virgins you don't get to party likes its 1999 which already came and gone. Maybe that is why God sent his own atonement as a token of his mercy for an ungrateful generation and civilization.

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