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RE: What makes the person above you so unique and how do you rate their freindship?

I don't know her but she is a young single mother trying to do her best and I applaud that.

RE: the head or the heart?

RE: Say Something... No need for names, Be Nice. Part Deux!

You should use sunscreen...too much sun isn't good for you

RE: Say Something... No need for names, Be Nice. Part Deux!

you look very red, too much sun?

RE: Say Something... No need for names, Be Nice. Part Deux!

Long time no see...how are ya?

RE: Are you more of a city or country person?

Agree, I feel landlocked here and can't stay too long...need to live near the sea.

RE: Are you more of a city or country person?

Olympic Pennsula, Washington State...not tropical, but definitely rain forrest.

RE: Idiot Quote of the Century:

XDepends on what you make of it...can be a great vehicle for propaganda...or not...depending...

RE: polyamory

Haven't got a clue...

RE: polyamory

Excellent, makes sense to me; I completely agree. I think people who would prefer to have multiple relationships are really not familiar with or not comfortable with the complexity, depth, and intensity of a truly intimate relationship.

Now, since we have a history of commenting on each others pics...that friggin picture is scary..... seriously

RE: polyamory

Well, perhaps people are not meant to be monogamous permanently, but while they are in an relationship, I believe most people prefer to be exclusive. The depth and complexity of a real intimate relationship precludes the reality of sharing that with more than one partner. It may be possible to love more than one person, but not to the depth that most people want in a real relationship.

RE: Are you more of a city or country person?

I have always lived in the city, except once for a year I lived in a small town. It was not a good year for many other reasons, so I can't really gauge if it was the small town I was unhappy with....there were other things going on that year...one was dealing with a huge loss and mourning/grieving all that year...so...But, I had been living in a big city, a really nice, beautiful big city, and missed that.

However, I think Europe is different than North American...you can live near big cities, but in villiages or in the country and have access to all the amenities of the city pretty easily. That is really appealing to me...I live in apartments now, and would love to have a house, space, a garden again, a big dog, etc...which mean either suburbia or the country...so, I'm not quite sure...I love being in the country and away from the city, but also love the city...need to find a place that is the best of both worlds...

RE: polyamory

RE: polyamory

I think it is most likely not a realistic way of life...don't think human beings are programed to have this kind of openness in intimate relationships...

This type of thing may work in the short term, but not in the long term...people who are intimate get involved and emotionally attached...this type of thing seems to be too limiting in how invovled you get because there are multiple partners...

Actually, sounds kind of like BRAVE NEW WORLD....a kind of ideal that doesn't actually work because it isn't actually natural for human beings, who are very emotional beings: dystopia.

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RE: What do you dislike most.....

If there is anything I don't like here, I guess it would be a cultural issue...the teutonic state of mind or outlook...generally it is very nice here, people are pretty 'green' they recycle and take care of the enviornment, better than other places anyway, they are clean and well organized, the lifestyle is intelligent and reasonable...however, they are a bit too organized and in control for me....I like a bit of mess and chaos...so, I feel I would prefer southern Europe...given my travel experiences there..a little mess, a little chaos, a little more warmth of character and personality...not to mention actual weather warmth, ha ha

But it's, Germany, a nice place...no real complaints..

RE: the head or the heart?

RE: the head or the heart?

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RE: Say Something... No need for names, Be Nice. Part Deux!

RE: Say Something... No need for names, Be Nice. Part Deux!

RE: the head or the heart?

Do you like my big, beautiful eyes?

RE: the head or the heart?

LOL

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LOL

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LOL

RE: the head or the heart?

great minds again....

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How Long Have You Been On CS

never!!

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How Long Have You Been On CS

Hope not...you must be breaking a lot of hearts though...