I just want you to know, that you are going to see a very good friend of mine! But I have talked to you as well and want you to know you are a good friend too! And out side of the both of you, No one is more happy that you to found each other then me! No update needed, I already know how it is going to go. Just relax and enjoy each other!
I was just wondering, Something like this happend not to long ago at Target, but the store was insured for the theft. And Target had made a public statement that niether the co. or the employees would suffer because they were coverd with ins. I can not believe a ''co. as big as Walmart would not be insured?
When I was married, I always felt alone no matter what. Then I met someone who was a truck driver he was gone all week, only home on the weekends, sometimes not in until lat Fri. Gone by Sun. Afternoon. I lived out in the country and when he was gone I was all alone, but I never spent one minute feeling lonely. No one ever understood including me, why with him gone so much I never felt lonely. The day I left him though I felt very alone. Now I sometimes feel alone even when I am out with my friends. I think I am pretty much learning what it is that makes me lonely like that. Yesterday I was with a couple of my friends, the house was full of screaming kids, we were having fun just the same, but I felt kind of lonely, never could figure that out, til yesterday. In the middle of all the chaos I got a phone call, one I was kind of wanting. And as soon as I answerd the feeling went away. There was kind of the same thing happening o the other end, so we said we would talk later. as soon as I hung up the phone the feeling was back. I guess it's more o wating to be with one person so much that o matter how many people are around you tthey dont fill the void.
I gave my opinion before, but really there is more a lot more to love. Some of what can not be put into words. Love is wanting to give all thats inside of you, and not expecting anything in return. love is foriving, love is laughter, love is tears, love is unselfish, love is faith, love is your strength, it is your weakness, Love can bring the toughest man to his knees, crying like a newborn, It can make the most timid of women into a lioness. Love is the most powerfull emotion there is, And yet we question what it is? How do we know if we love? There should be no question on what love is. Real love does not care what you look like. The mother who gave birth to a severely deformed child, will love that child completely and unconditionally. The man who's wife had breast cancer, loves her anyway, unconditionally. The women who's husband lost his ability to walk or speak loves him still unconditionally. When you feel love you know what it is.
I have not been o other dating sites. So I am ot sure how they all work or don't work. But to give my opinion. CS is a place where you can join forums and chat, with people who are in the same boat. You have better understanding from someone who has been thru the same things. And in most cases you are more able to talk about things here, you would never be able to talk about with just anyone. Are we here for dating, or just the forums? Both thru the forums and chat, we are getting our group therapy, as well as learning more about our selves, and each other. Plus we see the people we have more in common with. and we make friends. And we sometimes fall in love. The way I see CS, is a place where I can heal my cuts, become a better person, and maybe along the way help someone who has been thru a lot of what I have. And just maybe because we have all suffered one thing or another there is someone who is looking for the same things as I do, but will have the pateints and understanding that someone in a bar would not have. I am here for both, but if one doesnt happen, then I still have good friends that uderstand, and are there with a shoulder, or a word of advice, or just to make me laugh. The truth is, if we came here looking for love, we found it in everyone here.
It's only the way I see it, and wha I choose to believe. But I think that our soul is our spirit self. And do we know we have one, I think we do, and I also think that it talks to us, it's the inner voice, it guides us, if we listen to it. I think it is what we feel in our hearts as how it communicates with us. That is the one reason I say I will always listen to my heart over my head. The way I see it the mind knows what it is tought it knows only what it see's. It works with reason and fact. The heart is your soul your spirit. I believe it knows everything. I believe that the spirit was here long before we were. I also believe it is the explanation as to why we can meet someone and dislike them before they even speak. Or that we all in love with someone long before the mind will accept it. Because I spirit already knew there spirit there higher self. It's why your heart tells you one thing and your mind says different. Your mind governs your thinking it can only prossess fact and reason, your heart, your soul, your spirit, governs your emotion. 'Your heart knows what you want, what you need, and at times who long before your mind could ever comprehend. Yes I believe we have a soul or spirit, and I believe we know it's there as we seem to find ways to communicate with it. And yes it does exist outside of our bodies, it was here before our body and will be here long after.
Guess not, there really is no one left, maybe I am just feeling really down tonight, because my tow best friends are leaving. No longer will there be Tripple A
Love is a lot of feelings. It can be a feeling like you are really alive for the first time, Love can make the biggest problems seem small. I can have you walking around with a smile pasted to your face. Love can also be confusing, and frustrating. Love can also be devistating and leave you angery and bitter.
I am first and always a county girl, I live ina small city right now, and I have lived in bigger cities, but I am best when I am in the country. give me wide open space!
'I already posted on this thread, but sorry last night I realized something more that I really do miss! I was sleeping when we had a really bad thunder storm that woke me up. I am not scared of the storms in the day time, but at night the scare me to death. Last night I woke up and really got scared, What I missed was having someone there who I could wake up and crawl inside of to hide. Some one who would put there arms around me and make me feel safer. But I was in the house alone!
If money was no object, I would do two things, I would fly 3 very special somebodies here to the US and tour the country, then I would go back with them and tour there country, Heck if money was no object would tour there country for a very longggg time!
I love all of what you have listed, But I also like when he is playfull with you, sneaking up on you in the winter and starting a snowball fight, wrestling around on the living room floor, chasing you around the yard or even the house. I also like to take walks and talk, hold hands sneak a kiss once in awhile. I like picnics on a blanket, and just laying on it watching the clouds. And I love to get surprises, romantic ones anyway. like getting flowers with a teddy tied to it sent to work just to make your day brighter. or to just take you somewhere special and not be told in advance where your going. And I love to go thru NY in a horse drawn carriage. LoL. Dreamming I guess. But you asked.
I never thought about it, But I work in nursing, and everyday I go out on break. And I see all of us sweet little angels turn into some pretty mouthy priates
Don't know where the song came from but I just heard it for the first time the other other night in a movie, and it gave me a good case of goosebumps. The song Love you til the end, the movie PS. I love you.
RE: long distance relationship
Yep.. I agree[/quoteI just kind of think that if love has no bounderies, then why should we place them on our selves?