No one has a perfect past! and you will never have a perfect future. But if you care about someone shouldn't you want to be there for them? shouldn't you want to share the bad as well as the good? Look at your self first can you handle what comes with her? If you can and you care about her then let her know! Everyone here is full of advice, most is good. But know one knows whats in your heart or how strong or weak a person you are. Only you know how you feel. If you love her and you think you can handle her situation, then just maybe when it is all said and done it might have been ment for you! The rewards could be more then what you could ever imagine.
this really is so true! all of it! I have seen this with myself and my friends! Now everytime I go to the banks drive thru I am going to laughing! Thanks now I can laugh all the way to the bank!
there was one I liked a while back for a car ins. when a car tried to avoid hitting animals and crashed there car, then you see a couple of squiarls doing the high five.
The way I see it, intentional deliberate actions even if done because of an emotional or mental problem is still deliberate. My ex lashed out many times in anger and hit me broke bones put me in the hospital a few times. I also have worked with people who have done the same. There is no real difference between them and my ex. I had tried for years to get help for my ex. He wouldn't take it he wouldn't try to help himself. And it was my choice to decide that there was no love there, it was my choice to decide if I wanted to continue to be hurt, or take a chance on finding my own happiness. It is not that I do not feel bad for my ex, or have some love for him still. But I tried for ten years to get him help and get the situation turned around. ten years of beatings and forgiving. The last time he damn near killed me. When does unconditional love end and becomming a marter begin?
everyone does something wrong from time to time. But if you did something wrong that pissed me off and I felt I had to leave that is putting conditions on it, and it's not the kind of love I would want. I am not saying that it gives a person the right to hurt me intentionally because if they do then they don't love me.
Love is wanting to accept another the good bad the indifferent. Love is wanting more for someone then your self. Love is giving to someone a part of you that you would not give to just anyone.
I would define a successful relationship as two people who are happy being with each other, who work together as a team to reach there dreams and goals. two people that suport each other. Two people who are willing to be there for each other thru bad times as well as the good. A successful relationship is when two people can love each other and let the love grow thru out time. Not just when it's new and then let it die and go there seperate ways. To me that is not a success either.
Bagage and head games? Everyone has some so called bagage, Anyone who says they don't have it is a liar and plays headgame! I have bagage and I will tell you what it is. My parents died and I never got over it completely, both of cancer. And I never got over loosing them. I was married and abused severly for a long time. I fought to get out of that situation, but it left some pretty nasty scars. I met a man fell in love was engaged to be married. Got pregnant lost the baby, and was told I had cancer just like my mom. I fought the cancer but it left me not able to have kids. My fiance loved kids had none. I left so he could meet someone who could have kids. He did! Now I ask you with all this bagage I carry in my heart do you not think that finding love would help resolve some of my bagage? Do you not think that finding someone to love would help me to move on with my life? Give me a reason to be happy again? Do you not think that carring that bagage has not made me a stonger person? Head Games! mine not telling you of the bagage I carry because you dont want bagage. I personally want someone with bagage, so that I know one he has delt with life, two he is a stronger person for it. And three I would like to be the person that gives him reason to shed the bagage and move on to a happier life.
Your not an icecream flavor! If he had any real thoughts about wanting to be with you he would not be tring to start another relationship with someone new! And if he took any relationship serious he would not be with more then one person any way. The guy is a dirt bag! You don't need that in your life no one does! not even the newbie. This guy has been married to you he knows you there should be no question if he wants you or not. I know what my reply would be to your ex if he were mine. Ok, there is this guy I like but I am not so sure I want to be with him yet, he seems to have what it takes at least he has more then you, but I would like to know if he knows how to use it better then you! NAW! never mind if memmory serves you wernt that good! need to find a better comparible.
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RE: Fav Movies
Both of those movies were really good!