kamelia Forum Posts (574)

RE: CS Wedding Announcement ;-}

I want to thank everyone again for the congratulations

We are hoping that our story will give hope to the ones who are skeptical about internet dating. Hey I was one of those

RE: CS Wedding Announcement ;-}

Hey Lela..it's good to see you

What has been happening here while we were gone

RE: CS Wedding Announcement ;-}

Thanks Joanne and Imma

We hope for many more success stories on CS

RE: CS Wedding Announcement ;-}

Thank you all.. we are very happy and enjoying our time together in my home town.. we posted some photos on the profile from us in Macedonia.. We wish everyone the best of luck in finding love

RE: Ageism!

I am 28 and he is 47..What a great age

RE: Cell Phones at a First Time Meeting,Yes or No?

I would keep my cell phone on and have a friend call me in case I need baling out of the date (if he turns out to be what he is not)

If the date is great, we would have a secret code to let her know that I don't need the emergency situation to bail me out

Other then that I don't chat on the cell phone while on date

Someone needs our hugs and support this week ;)

Oh he can't get out of bed now

I am sorry I can't be there with him

RE: Fool me twice, shame on me!

Those scamers either think they are so smart, or they think other's are mentally challenged. But I agree with luscious, some of them actually get married for the papers, and live with the man, but I think they both know what they are getting themselves into. I heard this from an American man when I asked him why do men fall for that when they know the woman might be gone the very second she gets her papers. The reasons were explained to me:
1. The man is going to have a young and beautiful wife for at least three years who will take care of him and get on his good side (that is until she is free to go)
2. They will have three years together and maybe within those years they might fall for each other (a big "if" that is)
3. They both know what they are doing, but the end result is not that clear

RE: Does age really matter?

Well to a certain point age is not an issue..I have been attracted to older men too..I have found myself to have more in common with older men, then with younger ones..The reason might me the maturity level, but also I find it very attractive when a man knows what he wants out of a relationship, and in most cases guys my age are still searching for themselves and I am not someone who would stick around until they figure out what they want

Someone needs our hugs and support this week ;)

Keytone honey..you are in my prayers today

Lots of love and good thoughts are being sent your way



Best of luck today Bettis and speedy recovery

RE: What present do u want to receive by Christmas?

Oh my Christmas present is not arriving this year

Maybe 2009 will be happier one

RE: How long have you been here?

Welcome back Barren

RE: I see this alot

In a relationship everything should be give and take..so the amount of freedom your partner has in making independent decisions is the amount of freedom you should have.

If the couple is comfortable with giving each other suggestions on what they think is "better" it's ok to do it, but again if it goes both ways.

If there is such an imbalance where one of the partners is always the one "suggesting" and having his way with everything, I am not sure that is a healthy relationship between two equal adults JMO.

RE: I am in love and I have no idea what to do.

Yes I am guilty of not reading the whole threads too

I am glad you are going to see your man soon, my wait I'm afraid is going to be a little longer

RE: I am in love and I have no idea what to do.

Hello Sommer

You need to be with your man soon, I think that might help

RE: How long have you been here?

May 2008

RE: Choose...right here...right now!

American men

RE: A New Year On The Horizon........

All of the above actually

But seriously in 2009 I plan on starting a completely new life, which means being more acceptable to changes and more opened to taking chances (of course only calculated risks are included )

RE: Which emoticon are you right now?

It just can't be said in only one

Someone needs our hugs and support this week ;)

I am (im)patiently waiting on your recovery and arrival Bettis

Someone needs our hugs and support this week ;)

Keytone..you are one of the nicest men I've ever met and I know that this week is going to be a big one for you

I send you my

And wish you a speedy recovery

For anyone who wants to send warm wishes and speed recovery to Keytone (Bettis) this is the place

Long distance - chalenge or not?

I agree somewhat..actually I was one of the skeptical ones..but I do hope we will meet soon..it will answer many questions

Long distance - chalenge or not?

I agree..no one should listen to what others have to say..we should be wise enough to make our minds up about the person

I only listen to my inner voice

Long distance - chalenge or not?

I am so happy for the new couple on CS Wish you all the happiness and to love each other for many many years to come

Hello to you too Hugz

RE: are you satisfied with connecting singles?

CS is a great site..

What we make of it is our personal choice

Long distance - chalenge or not?

Everything is possible though we need to be practical as well..

What good if both of us leave the place of living and working and end up in a place that we both don't know and need to start from "zero"..

There are many questions that need to be answered I know and it's not an easy thing to do when you haven't met yet and still you need to trust each other completely in order for the LDR to work

Oh it's simply frustrating and I hope I will have those doubts behind me soon

Long distance - chalenge or not?

I agree..relocation is a must..

For me, independence and security are very important and leaving my country would mean giving up on part of that..Leaving the family and friends, my household, the new job that I just got out of nowhere

You should be able to trust the person with your life when you move to a country that is not your own..JMO

Long distance - chalenge or not?

Well it doesn't sound very optimistic but it's good to read a comment like this cause I thought that I was the only one who gets frustrated with LD and who is not patient enough for it

Though seriously, we as humans do need more and I guess it depends not only on how badly you want it to work but on the level of tolerance too

And here I thought I was a very patient person

RE: Which emoticon are you right now?

Long distance - chalenge or not?

TY Cristina