Mental illness is no reason to stop being friends with someone (unless they are abusive). I just don't see how how that can be a criteria for being or not friends with someone. Good for you to be upfront! Misfits and 'strays' make very good friends
With alk due respect, the Bible is published by a religion which sets boundaries according to its dogma and 'the church' as an 'entity' is responsible for many wars and many deaths. (In part the subject of this thread). Gender and religious descrimination can hardly be considered a spiritual loving peace encouraging tool. In my experience and opinion...
I didn't ... I married someone who was bi-polar... our marriage lasted 4 years... I would not want to repeat the experience... not out of judgement of others but rather out of preference for myself ...
Not sure what you mean by ''MOVING towards religious-war'' ... Weren't most wars of the last few centuries ''religious wars''? A long long time before nuclear fusion was invented ...
Any nation adhering to religious dogmma as a way of controling its people will find it difficult to instill peace amongst its people or worldwide. The boundaries established by dogma would always exclude far too many people.
Spirituality on the other hands does not establish denomination boundaries and excludes nobody ?? In my opinion...
May be you are not being judged because you are on disability but simply are asking to meet a woman who is a very ''particular way''. You want a woman who is mature, intelligent, self-supporting, self-sufficient and self-reliant BUT ''knows how to take care of her man'' and ''knows how to show undevided attention to her man''... not sure those are compatible as a self-sufficient self-reliant woman may well have to prioritise doing the things that make her self-sufficient over ''giving undivided attention to her man''. May be your profile lacks coverence in some ways...
Also the words ''god fearing'' put a lot of people off...
A really cool book to read on genetic evolution is ''The Seven Daughters of Eve'' by Bryan Sykes a leading world authority on DNA and human evolution. I totally recommend it to answer your first question and also clarify whether humans have changed or increased their skills set or both or a bit of each ...
What you call your inner wixen is probably nowhere as pronounced now as when we lived in caves and wild animals would be lurking waiting for a moment of inattention or weakness on the part of the mother to sneak in and steal the baby/child for a savoury meal.
Transformation and transmutation as part of evolution let go of no longer needed skills and embraces new ones. It woyld be difficult for todays humans to really know what basic instinct skills humans used to have before.
Not sure what basic instinct skill you've had to override when it comes to your children and grandchildren but it sounds positively dangerous for someone
Fighting 'to defend one's territory' and 'protect' one's community iscoherent.
Men are not animals and so I would not expect them to fight for greed (more terrotory and resources than needed for survival) and/or fear of extinction of their species resulting in wanting all the females.
Why would you compare men to animals? Do you think men basest instinct has not evolved from when humans were more akin to animals?
As far as I can tell the human race has evolved in many ways leaening many complex skills like reading, writing, driving, building, flying machines, invention and use of medicine which all serve to impact on the quality of life and evolution and our own biological evolution.
So why expect man's instincts to remain as basic as those of an animal living in the wild? Don't you think men's instincts have evolved together with their skill learning?
Does anyone remember The Gongman? We met bere on CS in 2007/2008 Had an 8 month long relationship here in Spain. I just found out he passed away in France where he moved after we split up.
Only that if you thought they were awesome because of their modest attire which you mentioned (instead of mentioning their academic cleverness as you later clarified) then it would not be coherent with your obsession with Amy Whinehouse who is anything but modestly dressed ... now you have clarified you thought they were awesomely clever my comment is no longer relevent ...
I thought you said catholic girls were awesome in your previous post. Which is the awesome part? Or did you mean you find girls dressed in modest attire are awesome? In which case how does that fit in with your obsession with Amy Whinehouse?
I pray to God/Divine Spirit, thank God/DivineSpirit, chat to God/Divine Spirit, ask God/Divine Spirit for guidance through clues/signs etc... but I don't go to church or believe or follow any religious dogma ...
Character is learned ingrained behaviour and beliefs that tend to define how we treat others and who we really are. They are abstract non visual traits that tend to remain the same.
Personality shows who we seem to be. It's visual and personal . Our outer identity we present to others and can mask the true character. Personality is subjective and can be altered.
I know I mostly refuse the wear or carry anything with mogos on it unless they pay me to advertise for them
Raw is one facet of authentic may be ...
But people who do like to wear 'tagged' clothing are still authentic in the way they don't think too much about the implications of it or they just like to feel like they belong to a group. Being part of a group who wear a brand is still authentic to who they are in my opinion...
But I hear you. Not everyone has the same perception of what authenric is ...
Would say the word boring applies only to other people's threads or this one in particukar? Or is it a projection of your inner stste? Would you say that word in any way defines your own authentic self? Or only people who speak of subjects for which you have no interest?
In what way does your reaction to this thread express your authentic self would you say?
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RE: WHY ARE THE GOOD WOMEN TAKEN???
Mental illness is no reason to stop being friends with someone (unless they are abusive). I just don't see how how that can be a criteria for being or not friends with someone.Good for you to be upfront! Misfits and 'strays' make very good friends