Hey dude! Maybe therein lies the problem? 20 years ago when you were dating did you even think about her being a potential mate? I know I didn't. I just dated and eventually found a gal that I found myself wanting to spend my life with. Think maybe we all try to hard sometimes trying to capture what we once had instead of just letting things develop naturally. Jmo.
Hi Kamelia! Just curious; except for #5, why should any of the other things (1 thru 4) make a difference? Age, kid prefer., distance are all surmountable. As for #2, I think thats sort of how a relationship starts.
That's a great bar! And you're right, the bands are fantastic! In my town, it's the Elgin Public House. Great food, 500 different beers from around the world, and live bands on the weekend. Lots of blues and jazz.
Thank Buddy..... i can safely say that one has passed me by... it was coming along nice and slowly too. shame... we were getting on brilliantly...[/quote
Hey Stooie! Don't let it upset you bud. Multitude of reasons for contact to be broken. Just hang in there!!
Hi there! Usually check out the pictures then follow up with profiles. Some of the profiles are hilarious!! Love a great sense of humor and someone who can laugh at themselves! Unless its someone like "Kissmedeeply" - then I just oogle the pictures!! Hi Joanne!!
My stero system was worth a lot at one time! Now its collector items!! Sansui 5000! Still works, tho, along with the reverb amp, cassette, and a Gerard turntable!
Hey Natzz!! I'll be your friend and I'm guessing that a WHOLE lot of other people here on the site will join me. Don't sweat the small stuff, darlin; everyone here is hoping you make a connection -----most are trying to do the same. What works; works and no matter what most here will support you! So just go for it, and what happens, happens! Good luck!!
Hey dude! No easy solution here, my friend. Only thing thats going to help is time and its going to take you some to come to grips with it. We can all tell you all sorts of crap about what to do, but in the end you have to deal with it and time is the only thing that seems to make it easier. Wish you all the best my friend! Run like hell, laugh every time you can and hopefully you get past it!! Good luck!!
Darilin, your so damn young don't worry about it. You can't force any kind of a relationship. Just post on the forums and enjoy the really nice people her. Lots of people here have been hurt big time and have real trust issues. Just go with the flow and be REAL. Makes a huge difference in the long run which is what you want. Have patience, darlin, and you'll meet the right guy!
RE: When did it all change?
Hey dude! Maybe therein lies the problem? 20 years ago when you were dating did you even think about her being a potential mate? I know I didn't. I just dated and eventually found a gal that I found myself wanting to spend my life with. Think maybe we all try to hard sometimes trying to capture what we once had instead of just letting things develop naturally. Jmo.