Aw thanks Pedro...you're one of the decent ones on here too, You never have a bad word to say to anyone and ask some really interesting questions.
I know (from things youve said about your past) that you've had a tough time of it, and sometimes you get flack on here...But always remember you've come through it and it's made you a better, stronger, and far far more decent man that any of that bunch of eejits. You are an example to everyone on here, but they can't see it. I do though.
So you hold your head up high Pedro...and walk tall, walk proud...
But what I do know is that your behaviour has become very odd over the last day or two, really nasty and pretty awful to anyone who says anything you don't like.. It looks like you're another one on here who's also suffering from some sort of mental health problem..and another one giving others a reason to leave...
It's no wonder the forums are gradually losing people.
If you go back and look it was you who said I was butting in. Not me...
If you have to resort to twisting what someone else says to prove a point then you
1. have no point to argue in the first place and 2. even if you did you must lack the skill to back it up. 3. must lack poor conversational skills as well as 4. very poor literacy skills and 5. don't get me started on what it says about your lack of character and integrity as well....
Not sure I could make that any easier to understand..
Of course, CBT, it never dawned on me that that's what it was, rewiring the brain. Not that i know much about it, other than it's a technique to change one's thoughts or thought patterns but it makes sense.
You put up some good subjects on here Pedro, definitely far more interesting than the rubbish so many others seem to revel in...fair do's
It reminds me of somethign I read something a long time ago that was saying people who've lived in different places, met different types of people, had a wide variety of experiences of all sorts etc etc become much more multifaceted and can adapt/change according to whatever need...and in the process develop a much more faceted/nuanced personality as well...
In contrast, people who live with small boundaries and experience little variety tend to become much less flexible etc...hence the phrase small minded.aka parochial etc..
I'm a bit vague on the details but what your'e saying sounds similar but a bit more up to date and scientific
You must be new to the internet and forums, so let me explain.
This is a forum open to all.
When you write a public message for the world to see you do NOT have jurisdiction over who can and cannot comment. In fact, you are inviting total strangers to comment/reply etc...
If you want control over who can and cannot reply then send a private message. That way you get to choose who can read and reply...
As for fake profile..you/re either being deliberately stupid or you simply don't understand what a fake profile actually is. .If the latter then I suggest you do some reading on what constitutes a fake profile....
Gosh, yes, I remember that , it was last year sometime. You never ever said a bad word to anyone on here. Ever. Yet they were all over you for one silly post and said/threatened some really nasty things to you...So no thanks necessary at all Pedro, it was absolutely my pleasure
Bait you? Ah here, that's silly talk Geno and you know it...
The point I was making is that I've been watching you be slowly dragged into the gutter by the site loons when I thought you were better than that...that's all.
Ahh Youcannow, I'm sorry to hear that, but I completely understand why. There's a limit to what someone should have to put up and you've put up with far more than you should ever have to on here. Glad to hear you'll be back when the waters calm down though.
Small consolation I know, but I've so enjoyed your satorical wit . I'm sure I don't need to tell you that most of it went completely over the the laughing hyenas heads.
I also, as an Irish woman, want to aplogise for the absolutely disgusting behaviour of my fellow country woman..I've been meaning to do that for a while now but was hoping she'd just stop and go away but no such luck ..No excuse I know, but she seems to be going through a particularly manic stage of her illness at the moment, so don't take it personally, she's not a well girl..
I'm glad to hear you've found an amazing woman by the way, I hope it all goes well for you and ye make each other very happy...fair play
Since we don't know either of you and have very scant details, it's very hard to say really...If she still smiles at you that might not mean anything at all. Maybe she's just a nice girl and being polite, no way to tell really.
Sure give it a bit of time and ask again, but make sure you tell her it's the last time you're going to ask, because you don't want her to think this is going to be a regular thing and for her to start wondering if she needs to avoid you in future...if she starts to think like that then you have zero chance with her and that zero will last forever as well.
Anyways..good luck with it, fingers crossed for you mgplayer
RE: Dating
Ah no bother mgarplayer, you're heartily welcome . Here's hoping eh?