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RE: Serious or fun?

to be honest ''is that good enough example?'' ...NO- that makes me a turd? makes me someone of a group that is ganging up on you? I f you don't want to be pleasant and join in with the forum in a pleasant way, then i can only assume that you don't want to be a part of it, and in my view that is a loner- not an insult, just an observation.

the only contact i have previously had with you to my knowledge was a thread where i asked if it was appropriate that my ( separated) husband walked into the house at any time of the day or night, unnanounced, therefore allowing me no privacy and you accused me of trying to keep my children from seeing their father and using them as pawns. since you didn't bother to read any of the other threads that expained how much we have both tried to make things good for our chuildren, then i would consider that rude.

and BTW- i have not seen other contributions from you other than 'dropping in now and then to be rude to people,' so what am i supposed to base my opinion of you on??

RE: Serious or fun?

can you give me an example please?? I have no gang behind me- I speak for myself.

RE: Serious or fun?

I can understand the point some have made about IM'ing someone if you want to say hi, but i can only make this point from my own personal opinion---- there are a good few people on here that i would like to say Hi to, but i don't really feel i know them well enough( some maybe YET) to have a complete individual conversation with. i want to say 'hello, and i like seeing your input on the forums, but i either don't know you well enough for a long chat,' or do not want to give the impression that I am 'interested' if i am not. so to say a quickwave how are you, on a thread is sometimes enough for me to let them know I have noticed they are there.

as I said before, the subject matter of the thread would influence me ( i hope, though i may have been lax in the past, i don't know) as to whether i would think that thread appropriate or not. eg.Thread'' My mother just died, I am feeling so low'' is not a thread I would answer a 'Hi, how you doing?' with ''great- had a hot date last night'

Am i making any sense ( probably notlaugh )dunno

RE: Come back Bluebelle4000

It appears to me that some people have a problem with people becoming friends here...I really don't get what that is about- if you don't want to make friends and meet possible dates, then why are you on a dating site?????

Of course there are going to be people that call each other by first names, if they know them-
And the 'regulars' have always been friendly to newbies that i can see- certainly were when i joined- having said that- i didn't come here and set about insulting large portions of the members right off the bat( some have deserved it since, but i'm selectivelaugh ).

I do note that the ones that are rarely here and then come on saying how rude and judgemental everyone is....the only posts i can remember them making on any of my threads were insulting and illinformeddunno .
I hope BB comes back- she is a kind and genuine person and one, above most, who would welcome the new blood wholeheartedlyhug

the close freinds i have IRL- weren't that the first day i met them. freindships have to grow, and it's the same here- you have to earn that by joining in, and being respectful and freindly if you want people to be the same back to you. my 3c!!

RE: Calling all Old Biddies...

a knitting bee with sweet sherry ( one only of course!!) could get a speaker from 'attends' to provide the food maybe?dunno laugh

RE: now does size really matter girls?????

ha ha- great minds think alike!! ( fools seldom differ i heard toomumbling )laugh

RE: now does size really matter girls?????

wow- the old gang are back with a few great newbies to join the fun- guess everyone had a christmas break!!laugh

RE: now does size really matter girls?????

things are greatwink hope you have had a nice break from here- any news???????

RE: now does size really matter girls?????

ha ha- not at all- that was our response as kids if my brothers insulted us!! slap them over the head after saying 'tell me if this hurts'!! don't go away again LM!! how are the horrors darling little pupils??laugh

RE: now does size really matter girls?????

one tries one's bestlaugh innocent

RE: now does size really matter girls?????

ha ha- you mean the 'tell me if this hurts' foreplay!!laugh

RE: now does size really matter girls?????

ha ha= you've been away too long Mick- you've lost your 'filthy' touch- sure it'll all come back to you- like riding a bike...pun intended!!laugh wave

RE: now does size really matter girls?????

when will men realise that not all of a womans nerve endings are inside!!laugh

RE: uncle albert & bluevelvet

I get that- just hate to see friction- i'm a libran- what can i do??dunno laugh

RE: uncle albert & bluevelvet

thumbs up just leave it- no room here for nastiness- a joke should be taken as such, and a slightyly overzealous reply should be taken as such too.

the written word leaves no room for interpretation, so don't react so quickly to either what you think is a horrendous comment- it may just be a joke that you didn't get, and similarly, if someone reacts badly, try to assume that that person has taken it the wrong way and explain yourself nicely.

# remember this is a dating site, and people are watching how you react to things- if you react instantly and badly- how do you think you are coming across to someone who may just be watching the conversation, that might be someone you secretly have your eye on?? dunno

RE: Recession???? What Recession

also i have a friend who runs a fast food outlet- he won't hitre irish any more because every sat/sun morning they call in 'sick'. it is true that a recession will get people back to caring about doing a good job- (not saying there aren't many that will do that anyway- (but hopefully they will be the last to lose their jobs in a recession) and unfortunately , the Irish and same in scotland , have given themselves a bad reputation compared to the foreign workers)

My hours have just been cut to 10 a week!!!! apparently people don't get so sick during a recessiondoh

RE: for the ladies

he he= are you going to sell him some of your own jewellery( at vastly inflated prices i hopelaugh ) to give you?? sly dog ye!!rolling on the floor laughing

RE: for the ladies

yay dancing should i buy a hat??laugh hug

RE: for the ladies

them's fighting wordsvery mad boxing laugh

RE: for the ladies

now this one i want to knowrolling on the floor laughing

RE: for the ladies

haven't seen you with the beard so can't comment TG!!
Minx- I find you only get beard rash the first time you kiss him, or if it's been too long since the last time- either way ....it's worth itrolling on the floor laughing where have you been hiding anyway?wave

RE: Are u secure enough to Wear a pink shirt - question for the boys

if it's anice muted pink then guys- go for it!! I always thought my ex looked hot in a pink shirt- but agree the shade is important ....'whispering' rather than 'flaming' pinkrolling on the floor laughing

RE: Speaking of missing members

another MIA- remember the girl from Galway- the american girl- bagan with an E...sorry i am awful with names.. i know she left, but thought she would come back. And Mr Wright?? sad folks disappear- maybe they found lovedancing

RE: how bold are, were will you be??

doh don't understand the question, but i can be very bold, so I'm toldlaugh

RE: what do we look for when seeking the ideal partner

just read her autobiography- hell i'd give her one if i swung that way!!laugh

RE: say the first word that comes into your head from the last word posted.

knowledge

RE: say the first word that comes into your head from the last word posted.

offergiggle

RE: say the first word that comes into your head from the last word posted.

mate

RE: say the first word that comes into your head from the last word posted.

toothachemoping

RE: how many!!!!

thomas the tank, helicopter, remote control cars, wii remote control eh?? , eh??angel laugh

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