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Jan 3, 2010

RE: Want to practice your spanish?

Si. I would like to. Unfortunately, I canna remember much of it and I was a straight A student for four years, in the advanced levels! After graduation, I started studying Pre Vet/pre med then switched to Electrical Engineering.

I would like to do this (Pactice), later. Now I have to leave the University is closing.
Buenas Noches!

Jan 3, 2010

RE: Do you believe in long distance romances?

Exactly. Also, realistic expectations.

I was in an LDR we announced. I do not regret a single moment of the time he and I spent together.

There are things that have come out since we broke up. There is much dust in the air but I still don't regret a single moment, not a one.

Sometimes, one has to care enough about the other to let them go. The economy caused me to have to do this.

Jan 3, 2010

RE: Have you ever liked someone on CS...who is allready taken?

Unfortunately, my cats are all at home, besides they are not electronic like this one So they would not be able to help.

Good one, Hon.

Jan 3, 2010

RE: Do you believe in long distance romances?

Jan 3, 2010

RE: Do you believe in long distance romances?

YES, there is hope.

Jan 3, 2010

RE: How desperate are you ?

That is why I AM taking time for me. You have to work through much regarding your past relationship, before you go to another one. Otherwise you can ruin something new by not being ready.

Jan 3, 2010

RE: Is it true?

No, not necessarily.

Jan 3, 2010

RE: Have you ever liked someone on CS...who is allready taken?

OOOPPSSS! Dang Mouse!

Jan 3, 2010

RE: Have you ever liked someone on CS...who is allready taken?

True. Also those that persevere in spite of it, are the ones that are often hurt the worst.

Jan 3, 2010

RE: Have you ever liked someone on CS...who is allready taken?

True. Also those that persevere in spite of it, are the ones that are often hurt the worst.

Dec 30, 2009

RE: CS Community Poem! Lets write one together!

Our Bleassings we count, carefully and with pure heart...

Dec 30, 2009

RE: help me understand women pls?

Well in today's society, is rather biased.

Dec 30, 2009

RE: Do ladies tink that male nurses are wimps?

Dec 30, 2009

RE: Will 2010 be better than 2009?

YES!!!!! It has to be, for all of us!!!!!!

Dec 30, 2009

RE: call me i didnt do anything wrong

Thanks, Done and emailed you.

Dec 30, 2009

RE: call me i didnt do anything wrong

OP, You also the same as the above, could you email me, Please?

Dec 30, 2009

RE: call me i didnt do anything wrong

Hello, not trying to Hijack here, Forgive me, OP. Gabrielle, I just tried to email you and you havve me blocked due to age and location. Can you email me, Please?

Dec 29, 2009

RE: Why do you have turned off your IM?

Dec 28, 2009

RE: Should we teach you ?

Erm, if I may also have a sanwhich, can it be on Sourdough and with Dijon-Honey Mustard and Blue Cheese, Please, Gary?

Thank-you very much.

Dec 28, 2009

RE: Should we teach you ?

Dec 28, 2009

RE: Should we teach you ?

I hope your Mom is ok. You have my Prayers.

Dec 28, 2009

RE: You are attracted

Ali, With all due respect, my Friend, Why are you asking this?

Why should a young girl's preferences be any different than yours? You are a young man and you prefer older women. This is the same as you.

Come on Please, stop doing this to yourself, Please. No double standards.

Please it pains me to see you doing these things to yourself, kidding or not.

Dec 28, 2009

RE: Should we teach you ?

Dec 28, 2009

RE: Should we teach you ?

You did try.

You did offer but you also said and emphasized it would be with great financial hardship. This I cannot allow for either of us.

I know you did not care about my finances and property, etc.

You did email and I did respond to it. I could not accept your calls on the phone because I could not afford them and b/c it is wit great difficulty for me to talk on the phone, as you know, I can talk but not understand what is said very well with my deafness.

I understand what you are saying about others, Ali.

I truly do.

However, when you break all the rules of etiquette and polite society, you need to be prepared for others to look at you questionably.

It pains me so badly to be the one to explain this to you.

Dec 28, 2009

RE: Should we teach you ?

Wow.

This boggles the mind.

I have seen many of these type of threads by you Ali, where you were asking for fair answers and explanations as to why you are treated thusly.

Ali, You know me very, very well. Angelface, so do you.

I care very deeply about both of you.

Once again, I offer my Congratulations to both of you on your upcoming life together.

Now here is the hard part; the explanation you have said you want.

Ali,

There are certain rules and etiquette involved in timing of things. These you do not seem to know.

Ali, I broke our LDR off on 4th September, 2009 out of Love, respect and desire to be fair to you, due to my economic circumstances.

On 14th September, 2009 I posted a thread letting CS know about us and asking everyone to support and help you in this.

To this point, there was nothing wrong done by either of us. Nothing.

Some where before 19th October, 2009, You and Angelface announced your LDR. I defended and congratulated you on later threads referring back to this announcement which, as I understand it Angelface had requested pulled.

OK, Ali, this is where you made your three mistakes:

a) It was not even two months, yet that we had broken up.

b) It was to my Pledge Sister, you announced.

c) Neither of you cared enough to give me a respectful heads up in private email before you announced.

In most cultures, to do any of this is most disrespectful.

My Father and Mother dealt with this issue with two of my Foster Brothers. Dad broke a fight up between them then, he and Mom got the whole story. Their Lessons to all of us about this situation in terms of the above are:

a) ALWAYS allow a respectful amount of time to go by before taking up with someone.

ESPECIALLY, if it is some one whom was involved with a Sibling or a Friend.

Their definition of respectable amount of time, for a Sibling no less than a year, PERIOD. Quote Unquote.

For a friend, they recommended the same amount of time but if it was to be less, to make it @ least six months.

b) Never hunt/poach on your Sibling's territory for @ least a year. NO MATTER what they say. You never know if they will want to reconcile or not so you never want to wonder somewhere down the road. Besides People always need time.

c) If you, after a RESPECTABLE amount of time, take up with a person a Sibling or Friend was with, be respectful and care enough to let that Sibling or Friend know before you tell the World even if they are with another because it is the polite and caring thing to do.

I posted this on a thread where some one wrote and asked what others would do in going out with a friend's ex> I wrote much of the above BECAUSE it IS what I would do.

Ali, you highlighted my post and complimented me on this and complimented my Parents for teaching me the right way.

Having done this, How can you constantly ask why others are upset with you? What did you expect?

Ali, you both should have expected others to be upset.

You asked for a clear explanation. Now you have it.

I am sorry, Ali, you are not coming across as a kind man.

Ali your comments of late, are not of the Ali I knew and Loved.

Dec 28, 2009

RE: I'm not leaving...

PS, BEST of Luck to you in your new job. Things are starting to very slowly pickup here so soon I hope to follow you on this path.

Dec 28, 2009

RE: I'm not leaving...

Only too well do I know how the limited hours are cutting in to the online access for many of us.

Also don't get me started on the fiasco that cause all this to begin with, our Governor, here in Ohio, and the ongoing fiaso saga continues..

You will be missed my friend, you have my phone # and I hope we will be talking again soon after 9 pm, of course

You are a very wise person whom I am proud to call friend.

Cyndie

Dec 28, 2009

RE: Surrogacy , Your Views

Thank-you for these thoughts. I hope when and if that time comes, you can give this precious gift to a fine couple.

G-Bless you,

Cyndie Malik

Dec 28, 2009

RE: Why I Just Walked Away

Exactly. If not in the profile to have at least told you in personal email and sent an updated photo.

OP, I, also would NOT have sent her pics of myself w/o a shirt. To ME, that is disrespectful and sabotoging the relationship befor it starts.

You should have sat with her and had coffe and explained to her that you were angry with her for her dishonesty. It would not have hurt you to have coffee with her and let her know that anything other than a distant friendship was a no go.

Two wrongs a right do not make. You were in the wrong for lying to her as well

Dec 23, 2009

RE: A MESSAGE FOR THE MODS AND OWNERS OF THIS SITE

Merry Christmas and a VERY Happy New Year to all.

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