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Dec 23, 2009

RE: Surrogacy , Your Views

As a Woman faced with the possiblity of this option,

Surrogacy would be a very last resort for me. It IS expensive.

I would try for IVF with Donor eggs first.

A ironclad contract is a must under these circumstances. even then it is a big iffy process.

If I were able, when I was younger, I would have glady given a couple this gift.

It is a very painful decision and choice, I know. I have been and still am there.

Dec 22, 2009

RE: The chat room.

G'nite all. Library closing and Campus closed.

Dec 22, 2009

RE: I Truly Do Miss You.

My Husband Died. My exFiance from some years back has realized this. But I am tired of his cheating.

So, I guess it ia not for me.

Dec 22, 2009

RE: Do girls gotta doeverything far better than boys just to stay equal?

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as do I.

Dec 22, 2009

RE: The chat room.

Um, Apostophe,

Some one seems to have a similar complaint about the web chat. It seems that the site was closed by CS. Could it be a similar story here?

Where are the Mod's? What do they say?

Dec 22, 2009

RE: The chat room.

It is a bit slow in here tonight.

The chat room is too fast for me usually. Maybe the signal is coming from one of the snowbound areas and is halted?

Just kidding. How are you my friend?

Hope it comes back online for you. Probably "Technical Difficulties"

Dec 22, 2009

RE: woman and man are equal....?

LOL, they have "pregnancy vests" here for guys that emulate the various stages of pregnancy month by month.

These are given to guys to wear so they can experience a "sense" of what the aches, pains and ungainliness are like for their mate.

Many guys are far more understanding and compasionate to the real changes pregnancy has wrought after wearing them.

As for the OP. IMHO as I was raised by very enlightened parents, we are indeed equal. It is just a matter of accepting it.

Dec 22, 2009

RE: Are You ready to relocate??

Dec 22, 2009

RE: Where is the coldest capital in the world?

Coldest for Capitals, yes. But coldest for inhabited place on the planet is Eureka, Nunavut, Canada where the daily average temperature is -19.7 °C (-3.46 °F).

Dec 22, 2009

RE: NO APOLOGY

Thank-you Robert, things happen for a reason.

You and I did have a couple of emails over the issue back in September. I thank you, again, for your understanding after the emails.

Dec 22, 2009

RE: Should I even be here?

Wisest and Best said!

Dec 22, 2009

RE: Thank You God

You are welcome and my thanks to you for the same.

Dec 22, 2009

RE: My Explorations -Squatting Pan vs. Commode...!!!

Good questions, too Answers, anyone?

If you view the earlier post with a link on a person's documented trip to China, well, the last part about freash plastic covered toilet seats sounds like something we can use here.

The whole thread was informative. I neverthought it would be that different, maybe an old fashioned out houde but not the stuff that is this vastly different.

It is always good to do ALL homework before you leave for a place and this is a new chapter to add to aforementioned homework, IMHO.

Dec 21, 2009

RE: My Explorations -Squatting Pan vs. Commode...!!!

I agree. Yet it, um, is educational. I admit the idea of hosing off rather than continuously wiping, um well does make more sense.

Dec 21, 2009

RE: Thank You God

Dec 21, 2009

RE: Thank You God

You are right, here, but I was um refering to the woman in your previous post.

However, in His case I too, feel for him.

Dec 21, 2009

RE: CS' r of the Year 2009

DATA or WORF or ANY VULCAN of Star Trek!!!!!!!!!!!

Dec 21, 2009

RE: Happy Yule/Winter Solstice!!!

Happy New Year to you my Friend. I would love to join you for your celebration it sounds like a wonderful way to celebrate.

Blessing Be, Dru.

Dec 21, 2009

RE: What is the most popular sport in the world?

Forgot to add though, I did vote soccer. Hockey is my Favorite next to Lacrosse.

Dec 21, 2009

RE: What is the most popular sport in the world?

Dec 21, 2009

RE: Should I even be here?

Your thoughts are quite normal in this situation. Trust me, I too considered joining a Convent. I actually went so far as to discuss it with a Mother Superior of a Convent while going through my divorce.

Thankfully, she wisely told me to wait and see how I felt a year to three years after my divorce b/c these thoughts are not to be trusted while in pain.

In addition, I had converted to Catholoicism b4 Marriage. I was hurting and torn as to if I should remain Catholic or turn to my Judaic roots that I knew nothing of having been raised in a non-practicing family. She told me I needed to explore this fully b4 making a very major life changing decision as joining a Convent.

During this three year period, I also had gotten involved with a very nice guy whom wanted marriage while I was not ready. Fortunately I recognised I was on the rebound and called off the Wedding, long before it got to the planning stage. His Parents and my Mother understood. He was devastated. I still hurt that I hurt him to this day.

I thank G-d for this Mother Superior and a very wise very young Priest whom counceled me during some of the darkest days of my life and later during the absolute Darkest when my Husband asked me if we could reconcile then he was killed in a car accident b4 we could.

They listened to me and wisely let me rant and rave. The gave me good advice always leaving the choice be MINE.

Today, I am a Messianc Jew and very happy. I do join my Late Husband's Family for Mass from time to time and they have never condemned my for reverting to my Judaic Roots. They still Love and Respect me. I am very Blessed.

They only wish I could find a very nice guy and remarry. They did accept my ex-Fiance of 12.5 yrs when my own family did not b/c of his race. They were disappointed when we broke up a few years back but never condemned me for breaking it off b/c of Paul's problems.

Give yourself time. I have told others this when they posted in this category as you here.

The advice I give is as they say in Al-Anon for Families don't make any major decisions for at least 6 months to a year.

Hang in there it DOES get better.

Dec 21, 2009

RE: Thank You God

I feel for her.

My Father went through that trying to find Family after WWII while he was over in Europe. Both sides of my family that was in the Old World was almost entirely wiped out during the Holocaust.

I do feel so sad for her. I know how my older relatives greived. G-d help her

:sad_flower:

Dec 21, 2009

RE: Thank You God

we don't need to know about your periods.[/quote]

And You Won't!

Gotcha!!!

Dec 21, 2009

RE: Thank You God

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Dec 21, 2009

RE: Thank You God

Amen.

I agree with you, we should All count our Blessings. Thank-you for a good reminder to those of us that Believe. IMHO everyone is free to believe as they see fit. PERIOD.

I think you have your Priorities straight. I feel you have a good outlook on life.

You will make a lucky girl a good match someday with this attitude. G-d make sure she has the same attitude.

G-d Bless you, let His countenance to shine upon you and long may you prosper.

Dec 21, 2009

RE: Which One Is The Best ....................??

Yahoo is good but for some reason where I live, it is verrrrrrryyyyyyyyyyyyy Slowwwwwwwwwwwww in the Library.

Cs is good.

I like Google.

I have never tried the rest.

Dec 21, 2009

RE: Will It Be A Boy / A Girl ?

Nah, got to keep it equal. She already has two boys and Eric has two girls. This way they both have an opposite one for the youngest and it is still equal in terms family terms.

Dec 21, 2009

RE: Honestly Say, What would you do if somebody...

As for me, I would walk away b4 the slap made contact. If I were grabbed and hit at again then Assult Charges would be pending... So not worth it.

Dec 21, 2009

RE: Now The Civil War Is Over here in ......

It is the economy for many of us, my friend. I would like to travel one day. However, would like to and reality are oft two different things entirely.

Dec 19, 2009

RE: Worse Ratio of Women to Men in the world

Tomorrow or Monday campus Closing G'nite all.

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