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Dec 15, 2009

RE: How do you cope?

Very True. I feel the same. Excellent Advice, Dru.

Dec 15, 2009

RE: How do you cope?

Dec 15, 2009

RE: How do you cope?

Oh my, How heartbreaking to be saddled with that rersponsibility.
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I don't know I could have Honoured that in respect to Mom. Just for me, She would have deserved to know. I klnow I would have told my Dad that, unless Mom were Terminal herself. Even then it would have been hard.

My heart goes out to you.

Dec 13, 2009

RE: The Widow opinion

Dec 13, 2009

RE: How do you cope?

You are welcome. Reacting IS quite normal.

Dec 13, 2009

RE: How do you cope?

So true. Even now, it "Bites". Perhaps not finding closure on some matters of the Heart, is a way to keep us appreciative and searching by keeping our Hearts soft. I don't know.

My Heart to you and yours, Besat, and to all whom still long to hear the loved voices or feel their touch it is not going to be easy but in time, the best memories stand out.

I have a GF whom told me once as embarrassing as it is, it is still nice to know when the chips are falling down badly, that I'm still Daddy's Little Girl.

I was happy for her, but at the same time, sad b/c I would never know that. I found out how wrong I was in this. My Ex Fiance and I had bought a Van. We had all brakes and new tires put on it before we used it.

I used it to deliver newspapers the first night we had it.
I had been along a Rural Route doing 65 MPH the speed limit, here. Suddenly there was a wheel in the air. I thought that is large for a Plane.

It was my thought that it fell off of a plane.

The next hing I knew the Van suddenly fell down and was sliding.

Human instinct is to slam on the brakes and twist the steering wheel to get off the road.

I heard my Dad Say " NO!!!!" "Cj, tap the brakes. Slowly inch the Wheel or you will flip the Van." I felt His hands on my shoulders sqeeszing reassuringly, and saying "Easy, Cj, easy, not so fast" Gently, now Gently. Then He hugged me when I came to a stop and said "Good job".

I found out that day that even thought Da is gone, I am still one of Daddy's Little Girls.

To any whom doubt, that is fine. I KNOW my Da was with me that night.

Dec 13, 2009

RE: How do you cope?

As well as formany other posts here.

I lost both my Parents suddenly. Father @ 16y/o Mom when I was ~ 29.

I wish I had had the time to spend with them b4 they went, to thank them for Raising me.

Tell them How much they mean to me. How much I will miss them. How proud Iam to have been their Daughter.

To soak up as much Wisdom from them that I can b4 they leave.

Do spend as much time as you can with Him now. Also, Have your Son be with GranDad. He will appreciate it.

Many Hugs to you. There are no words to express that will take awy the pain.

Dec 13, 2009

RE: Does anyone have anything good or not good to say about their EX?

I am sorry you experienced that. I have also been a victim of DV not nice. I still choose for me, to retain the best of my late Husband.

Thank-you for your well wisshes. May you also have the best life has to offer in the future.

Dec 13, 2009

RE: Worse Ratio of Women to Men in the world

Dec 13, 2009

RE: Does anyone have anything good or not good to say about their EX?

I choose to retain the best of my Late ex-Husband and of my ExFiance. I do like him. I just don't want to go there again.

We are still best friends. Our long term engagement just did not work out.

Both of us will probably always care about and for each other as FRIENDS for the rest of our lives and JMHO THAT is how it should be.

Dec 9, 2009

RE: God made man first.....?

Dec 9, 2009

RE: God made man first.....?

Dec 9, 2009

RE: Another CS Baby!!!

Oh this is so Wonderful!! Congratulations to you and Eric.

Dec 9, 2009

RE: Private area..."Shaved or Not?"

True, you are both right.

Dec 9, 2009

RE: Hung

Dec 9, 2009

RE: God made man first.....?

Um, Ray really does have the opinion He expressed. That is what I meant. He was um not being um sarcastic. Just expressing his own opinions.

He is still a good egg.

It is ok to not want to take something on. Don't worry about it My Friend.

Dec 9, 2009

RE: God made man first.....?

Dec 9, 2009

RE: Which age range more romantic?

Dec 9, 2009

RE: God made man first.....?

No. He really is not.

Dec 9, 2009

RE: what made you choose your profile name?

Cool!!! I am able to play most Woodwinds.

I had Two other excursions, one where I had to learn and tutor the Trombone, (at the sametime), at my Band Director's Request.

One where due to a farm accident when I was a Senior, I almost lost a finger and had to be Faking it in Marching Band with a Beautiful Silver Trumpet, I could not play b/c of being Deaf rather than my Beloved Tenor Sax.

My Band director knew me too well. He pulled my Sax out of my hand and the on in the Sling and pushed the Trumpet into them. He told me I KNOW you wont fake it on the Tenor you WILL NOT lose that finger on my watch. . .

barely two weeks later, I did try and Practice on my Tenor and pulled all the Stiches out. . .

another Teacher noticed I was bleeding more and sent me to the Nurse who opened up the bandages went Fairy Fiddlesticks!!!! and rushed me back to the hospital and called my Mom. . .

Having to be resewn then explain to Mom. . .well, lets just say was not good.

I wish Mom and Dad were here in life now. Could sure use them and thier excellent advice

Dec 9, 2009

RE: God made man first.....?

Umm, you do have a point. But it could have been the start where he sent us Manna instead of later.

But, IMHO, he had to make us last or we would have been getting in the way and giving Him unsolicted advice on how to do things. Or asking Why? just like the little kids we can all be from time to time.

Oh. my. .Um I guess i'd better pick up JD's left behinf Flack jackets, etc. (I do get a um weird, yet logical opionion from time to time.)

Dec 9, 2009

RE: God made man first.....?

I'm Good too, thanks for asking.

Nice to see you.

Leaving in a Few mins - have a Bible Study to go to.

Dec 9, 2009

RE: God made man first.....?

Hi Steve, it is Saturday for me. How are you, My Friend?

Dec 9, 2009

RE: God made man first.....?

Dec 9, 2009

RE: God made man first.....?

Nope.

It was the Night then the Day, first.

The "Primordal Soup" was or microscopic life was made long b4 plants and flowers.

IMHO everystep written serves as the logical building block for the next created lifeform. NOTE this is just my opinion, not a Battle call.

Dec 9, 2009

RE: what made you choose your profile name?

Mine is B/c I Play the Tenor Saxophone amongst other instruments. It is my Favorite Instrument.

Dec 9, 2009

RE: God made man first.....?

My Prayers with you and yours. Email if you need to.

Dec 9, 2009

RE: Private area..."Shaved or Not?"

I think that was the intention. . . to fill the mailbox?

Dec 9, 2009

RE: God made man first.....?

Dec 9, 2009

RE: God made man first.....?

Ok, understood.

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