Fully agree, just changed mine taken beginning September, I went to meet someone and didn't even realise he was there as he sure didn't look like his photo.
Another knee high to a grasshopper, yes French men are short. He just sat there holding my hand for 2 coffees saying eh bah, much to the amusement of the only other couple in the bar. So when we left I turned to the other couple and said...he's really good in bed. Didn't see him again. Another when he kissed me OMG I needed a towel to mop up. Beginning to think I should just give up on this dating lark.
RE: Is being good looking & gift or a curse?
I would rather have a man with a gsh than looks but, any facial hair leaves me cold.